New Life Live Show Notes

New Life Live show notes give you access to the show archives. Listen to a New Live Live show from a particular date, as well as view the hosts, topics and resources.

New Life Live: October 22, 2014

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Topics: DatingAffairsIntimacyAlcholicsTeensSuicideAbuse 
Hosts: Steve Arterburn

Caller Questions:

  1. Is Dialectical Behavior Therapy a good therapy? 
  2. Why was I attracted to a date that I found out was married and another one into porn? 
  3. We reconciled after my husband’s affairs, but how do I get back the desire to be intimate with him? 
  4. Comment: My alcoholic uncle is now sober and back in church! 
  5. Should I still live with my husband who had an emotional affair for 7yrs? 
  6. My 15yo grandson is suicidal and wants to live with us; what will help him the most? 
  7. I saw “Trauma Bonding” at tv.newlife.com; how do I heal from my abusive marriage? 
  8. My wife was caught in an affair, and I don’t know what to do. 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Is This The One
Sexually Confident Wife
NIV Spiritual Renewal Bible
Every Man’s Battle

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New Life Live: October 21, 2014

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Topics: MarriageDatingPornographySexual IntegrityBoundariesLeadership 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Henry CloudDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. My ex-husband and I are dating, but I just found out he wants to date ten other women.
  2. I am starting to hate my husband because of his porn; how do I forgive him? 
  3. Is Changes That Heal a book that needs to be read and processed with a small group or can I go through it by myself? 
  4. How can I be a good manager after being unemployed so long? 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Every Man’s Battle
Changes That Heal
Healing Is a Choice
Boundaries for Leaders

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New Life Live: October 20, 2014

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Topics: ControllersAddictionsMarriagePolygamyDatingAging Parents 
Hosts: Steve Arterburn

Caller Questions:

  1. How does a controller connect with a video game addict husband? 
  2. My boyfriend is quick to marry, but I think we need counseling. 
  3. Is there a life outside of being a caregiver for aging parents? 
  4. I have two wives and the church found out; is it right for them to kick us out? 
  5. Should I marry my girlfriend knowing that she had a promiscuous past? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Healing Is a Choice
NIV Spiritual Renewal Bible

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New Life Live: October 17, 2014

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Topics: CounselingSexual IntegrityChurch LifeGrief 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Henry CloudDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. My therapist was very harsh with me; is she going to dismiss me? 
  2. Can I still pursue being a pastor if I have fathered a child out of wedlock? 
  3. After divorce, loss of income, and cancer, how do I move forward from grief? 
  4. I don’t agree with my sister moving in with her boyfriend; how can I love and support her? 

Suggested Resources:
Necessary Endings  (not available from New Life)
Just Us
7 Minute Marriage Solution

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New Life Live: October 16, 2014

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Topics: MarriageSuicideDepressionAdoptionFather Issues
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I fix the things my husband doesn’t like about me so we can stay married? 
  2. I am 47yo and I don’t want to live if my medical issues affect my ability to get pregnant.
  3. Comment: Thank you for all of the advice which helped me and my family! 
  4. I am 44yo and meeting my birth father for the first time; do you have any suggestions? 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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New Life Live: October, 15, 2014

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Topics: GaslightingMarriageSexual IntegrityAngerPornographyFantasyDating 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Sheri KefferMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband is gaslighting me; what tools are there for me, and how can I protect my kids? 
  2. Every Man’s Battle was life changing; thank you! 
  3. My angry husband uses pornography and now I fantasize about an old boyfriend. 
  4. How do I find a good Christian woman to be my wife? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love Our Kids
The Life Recovery Bible
Is This The One

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New Life Live: October 14, 2014

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Topics: ControllerAvoiderAdult ChildrenAffairsSexual IntegrityMarriageDating, Counseling
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Henry CloudDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. How can I help my daughter who is a controller married to an avoider who shuts down?
  2. When is it appropriate for me to stop encouraging my friend to stay married to a cheating husband? 
  3. Every Man’s Battle was fantastic; how can I get my wife to Women In the Battle? 
  4. As a single mom, how do I know if the man I am dating is the one I should marry? 
  5. I am seeing two therapists; is it lying if I don’t tell the first therapist about the second one? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Every Mans Battle
Is This the One

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New Life Live: October 13, 2014

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Topics: DepressionChristian WalkSexual AddictionSexual IntegrityGuilt 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Sheri KefferMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I deal with depression since I lost my job? 
  2. What does scripture say about cremation vs. donating my body? 
  3. I have repented for my sexual addiction; how do I get rid of my guilt for the pain I have caused my wife? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Emotional Freedom Workbook
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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New Life Live: October 10, 2014

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Topics: NarcissistsAnxietyDepressionSeparationDivorce 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My friend is a narcissist; should I pull away from her even though our kids are friends? 
  2. Should I handle my anxiety and depression differently since they are getting worse as I age? 
  3. My wife left me after 27yrs due to the difficult life I have given her; what can I do now? 
  4. My 60yo cousin is very depressed due to declining health and I am planning a visit; what can I do for her? 
  5. Why doesn’t the Bible say it’s OK to divorce due to abuse? 

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers
Rethink How You Think
7 Minute Marriage Solution

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New Life Live: October 9, 2014

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Topics: DepressionAnxietyParentingDivorceSeparationForgivenessGuiltBullying, MarriageAlcoholics 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My doctor said I am depressed, but I don’t believe it. 
  2. How do I protect my kids now that my husband is leaving us? 
  3. Why do I still feel guilty after asking forgiveness and repaying the money I took from work? 
  4. What help is there for my ADHD daughter who is being bullied and lashes out at me? 
  5. Should I tithe on my inheritance if my non-Christian husband says no? 
  6. Is marriage to an alcoholic husband worth fighting for? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Secrets Women Keep
Forgiving the Unforgivable
How We Love Our Kids
Book of Life Recovery

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