If you truly desire to be the person God created you to be, then you must learn to be truthful and turn away from lying. Lying can easily become a way of life. You lie to your kids to keep them from nagging. You lie to your boss to make yourself look good. You can even lie to yourself.
Are you trying to cover up your problems and pretend they don’t exist’including your problem with lying? Like it or not, you must face reality. When you do, you will see the pain caused by your lies. You’ll see how they’ve hurt you and your loved ones.
Think about these verses from First Peter and Colossians: ‘If you want a happy life and good days keep your tongue from speaking evil, and keep your lips from telling lies’ (3:10). ‘Don’t lie to each other, for you have stripped off your old evil nature and all its wicked deeds. In its place you have clothed yourself with a brand-new nature that is continually being renewed as you learn more and more about Christ, who created this new nature within you’ (3:9-10).
If lying is second nature to you, it may be difficult for you to change, but you must! You must learn to guard your lips and your thoughts from lies, which will hurt you as well as others. Then you can press on in your spiritual growth to be the person God created you to be.