New Life Live: August 28, 2014

Topics: FriendshipAbandonmentPornographyHoardersAdult ChildrenAngerFinances 
Hosts: Dr. Jill HubbardMilan Yerkovich with Larry Sonnenburg

Caller Questions:

  1. I had two husbands who had affairs and left me; how can I find friends who won’t reject me because of my past? 
  2. Should I separate from my husband who is into porn and now wants an open marriage?
  3. I blame my daughter for some things being lost and destroyed after she hired a woman to organize me; what should I do? 
  4. How can I make my husband respect me and not swear when he gets upset? 
  5. It’s been 7yrs and my husband is doing nothing to pay back a large loan from my mom. 

Suggested Resources:
Boundaries in Marriage
Safe People
How We Love

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  1. jeneh August 28, 2014 at 12:14 pm - Reply

    YOU are the church I am the church or we are the body of the church but Jesus Christ is the head of the church.Amen. Listen and listen good because God knows us very good and He knows everything; will you let one thing fool you over and over about everything for the rest of your life? I know that the word of God is very pure so if you believe His word then what we can do without Him forever? think about it. READ HERE! PROVERBS 23:7 For as he thinks in his heart,so is he.”Eat and drink!” he says to you, but his heart is not with you. Think about your camp to be holy forever.Amen? {In MATTHEW 17:9 did He say He will forgive you? READ MATTHEW 17:9 ”And if your eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you. It is better for you to enter in to hell fire. { you most be glad that the Lord knows you so good. Thank you God for your word in Jesus name.Amen.}

  2. ann August 28, 2014 at 1:07 pm - Reply

    OMGoodness, Jeneh has hit it on the spot today….kudo’s to you, now that’s how you quote scripture with a little bit of personal experience. Yes, if your eye or any other part of the body internal or external causes you to sin let it go, cut it off, or whatever it is that must be done to stop sinning or living in sin. The caller with the husband who wants an open marriage (all of a sudden), are you serious. Sister, if that’s what he wants and is indulging in porn and does not want to get help then yes, by all means help yourself and your children and get to stepping. I know some of the advice from the panel was helpful but not one of them asked if you loved your husband, it’s a bit obvious as to how he feels about you. If you do in fact love your husband and want this marriage to work and not be an opened marriage then yes, do get help and surround yourself with positive people, church, family, and friends to help the mending, if not please decide on how much more of his disrespect you’re going to take and remember he’s not just disrespecting you, he’s disrespecting and hurting the entire family. I will pray for you and for your decision. I will also pray for your husband, more so for awareness.

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