New Life Live: July 20, 2015

Topics: Marriage, Sexual Integrity, Friendship, Divorce
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. What can I do about my husband texting a woman he claims is just a friend?
  2. I have a restraining order against my wife; would it be best to come to Healing Is a Choice or the Marriage Weekend?
  3. Was it right to drop a friendship when I found out her husband was cheating?
  4. I was just served with divorce papers and I don’t know what to do since we are coming to the Marriage Weekend.

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Battle
Secrets Women Keep
Walking Into Walls (now 5 Blind Spots)
Healing Is a Choice
7 Minute Marriage Solution

This is the Marriage Solution Workshop testimony:

Before this New Life Marriage weekend, my life was hidden, silent in the shadows, lonely. I was at a loss for what to do next in a dead marriage relationship. This weekend has been a great opportunity to know and be in the same space with New Life and receive the most valuable help I have ever heard of. I am leaving the weekend so thankful for new friends, true friends and a truer more accurate understanding of forgiveness and of my wounds. I would tell anyone who is considering this workshop to go. New Life is reality and will help you with your greatest struggle!  – Paula

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  1. Howard July 20, 2015 at 10:11 am - Reply

    Hello this is Howard i receive the divorce papers in the mail on July 17 my wife do know if i got them yet. I am so afraid i have 30days to respond to the divorce papers. we are coming to the marriage conference in D.C. but I not shore what time she going to get there. I ask if she wants me to pick her up but she said she didn’t take off work. So she may get there late.

  2. candace July 20, 2015 at 10:50 am - Reply

    Can only hear you on Seriux radio in my car. est 1pm is there another way to hear you?

    love your radio station,

    • Pat July 25, 2015 at 9:17 pm - Reply

      I no longer get radio either since I’m driving in the hills through trees. I listen on the weekends to all the shows online.

  3. ann July 21, 2015 at 11:22 am - Reply

    Howard, go to the conference with confidence, don’t allow the papers or the enemy to distract you any further. You have done all you could considering the circumstances, now just let it go and trust God to do the rest. He knows what’s best for you, your wife, and your marriage.

  4. Pat July 25, 2015 at 9:27 pm - Reply

    I think it’s sad that people cannot have friends of the same sex without being scolded by their spouse. Of course the difference is in the question why they talk to them. I drive a truck and have made friends with a couple guys, since we talk about trucks, and have things in common, like other people at work, places we go to, etc. Also we are close to the same age. One of them lives with his girlfriend, and they have been together forever. Another is married and he has talked to me on the phone in front of his wife. Neither one of them is hiding anything, and both ‘spouses’ know about me. Also both men know there is nothing more between us. I just happen to be one of the few people they think are worth talking to.

    • Pat July 25, 2015 at 9:33 pm - Reply

      Whoops I cannot edit my post, but I see the error in grammar. I should have said I am one of the few people they think is worth talking to.

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