New Life Live: July 22, 2014

Topics: Weight IssuesAffairsTrustForgivenessDatingPornography 
Host: Steve Arterburn

Caller Questions:

  1. Your Lose It For Life Workshop helped me to connect! 
  2. My wife and I drive a truck and I cheated on her one year ago; how do I regain her trust? 
  3. How can I get over the hurt of my husband’s affairs, back when he got us into swinging? 
  4. Since my ex was a pastor who had affairs; is it OK for me to date a wonderful non-Christian man? 
  5. My separated husband is into male porn and is having an emotional affair; should I reconcile or quit the marriage? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Is This The One

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  1. ann July 22, 2014 at 12:56 pm - Reply

    OMG, the woman with the husband that is looking at male porn and having the affair with the 13 year old and his mom…what more do you need to realize that something is WRONG with this picture. The advice that was given to you today was very helpful. I’m sure you saw the signs long before now. Protect yourself and your child, your husband doesn’t seem to be interested in stopping his fun no time soon and he could care less that this is really bothering you along with being very disrespectful. Believe me I know all too well that this will end up dangerous, I mean beyond any STD’s – he’s put you at a serious risk. Take control and care of yourself, seek help and suggest to him to get help if he declines then you should decline too. I’ll pray for you.

    • Pat July 26, 2014 at 10:13 pm - Reply

      Yes Brenda’s husband is very messed up. She should NOT listen to her ‘Christian friends’ who judge her and tell her she should put up with such nonsense. I wonder who labeled Christian woman as ‘doormats?’ Women are such doormats and often put up with so much nonsense because they are afraid they will be kicked out and not have a place to live. They spend all their energy trying to fix or change him, while their own lives are wasting away.

  2. Nancy Rogers July 23, 2014 at 7:21 pm - Reply

    Thank you for the connection to John at the pool of Bethesda where Jesus asked the man if he wanted to be healed. The fact that he picked up his mat and walked was the first step that we all need to take to be healed. my therapist asked me this question almost two years ago and I bought your healing is a choice book and I just love how providential God is in how He works in us to draw him closer to us. Thank you for your ministry

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