New Life Live: March 4, 2014

Topics: DatingSinglesSeparationMarriageIntimacy
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Sheri KefferMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. Am I called to endure being single? 
  2. My unfaithful, alcoholic husband now has a friend in the Mafia; is it time to leave him? 
  3. I feel resentment towards my wife because she never initiates sex; is this normal? 

Suggested Resources:
Walking Into Walls
Is This The One
How We Love

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  1. Chris March 4, 2014 at 10:47 pm - Reply

    This soooo hit home. My name is Chris (female) 50 years old and never married. I was dating a drunk last year and now I’m moved up to a homeless guy. It is sooooo hard for me to dump guys who give me attention because my parents NEVER did and are full of negative comments. I sooo need help. stuck Miss Chris

  2. ann March 5, 2014 at 12:35 pm - Reply

    Dear Miss Stuck Chris, NO you are not stuck…you keep praying and trusting God to get you to that inner loving and deserving woman that you are. STOP allowing these men to set up shop with you, and roll that welcome mat up and throw it away, you can do it–there’s nothing we cannot do without God, all things are possible. Stop making excuses, it’s not about the men, it’s about you. I’ve learned many lessons in life and have had some very bad experiences with men, just recently but we are treated they way we allow ourselves to be treated. Please think positive and begin to trust yourself to know you are worthy of good and Godly things and men. I will add you to my prayers.

  3. Candice B March 5, 2014 at 6:58 pm - Reply

    I was praying the day before yesterday and then I heard you for the first time on the radio 600 A.M yesterday. I need some counseling too. I am a single 40 yr old. Never been married…Due to my past childhood I am fearful of sex and I am scared of men. I have no friendships that are intimately close because I am scared of those too. Severe violence and variety of abuses in my past. My whole life feels like it is spiraling out of control. I love Jesus Christ. He is the ONLY man I trust. I yet, still know there are some yokes that need to be broken. Some roots… The items you offered that woman yesterday…that was single-? Those books? Do you have any more? Can someone help me? I am willing to move-if need be-to get the help I need.

  4. ann March 6, 2014 at 8:36 am - Reply

    Oh Candice, my sister in Christ, please know that you are not alone, no I don’t know your inner story or your inner pain but please know that there is nothing God can’t do but you must first let go of the fear that you are holding so tight. The enemy wants nothing more than to keep you in bondage, it’s time my sister to let go. Please seek counseling through your church or look at New Life’s website for a counselor, explain your situation not so much in detail just yet but at least enough to get you to the right counselor. I will add you to my prayers as well. Trust me, it starts with you, when you let go watch God do his thing in and with your life. Peace & blessings, Ann.

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