New Life Live: May 12, 2015

Topics: TrustGaslightingParentingAdult ChildrenSexual Integrity 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. Did my ex try to gaslight me? How do I trust anyone? 
  2. My wife wants out; how do I save my marriage? 
  3. New Life inspired me to write on my rock, “I lost my heart, but God gave me his”. 
  4. How do I help my 26yo son who lacks sexual integrity and is homeless? 

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Bible
Forgiving the Unforgivable
7 Minute Marriage Solution
7 Minute Marriage Solution Devotional Bible

This is the Women In the Battle testimony Steve read on the radio today –

Since learning about my husband’s sexual integrity issues 3 months ago, I have experienced depression, grief, and tremendous loss. The pain has been overwhelming. This weekend has been exhausting, both physically and emotionally. However, what I have experienced was worth it. I have learned about the impact of betrayal and its trauma experience. I have met some beautiful, awesome women with whom I have been able to be vulnerable, share my story, learn from, and cry with. This weekend has been empowering. I am leaving this weekend with hope. Hope for my healing and for the restoration of my marriage. I also leave with tools and a plan to continue on a path of recovery. I have new resources to aid in this journey and new support from women with whom I share a bond because of our spouses’ sexual  betrayal. I would tell any woman who has been sexually betrayed, don’t hesitate, attend WITB. Invest in yourself, your healing. You won’t leave the same. – Melinda

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  1. kay May 12, 2015 at 8:10 pm - Reply

    Where is the download link?

    • Linda May 12, 2015 at 10:11 pm - Reply

      Same question. Not working

    • alita May 13, 2015 at 7:59 am - Reply

      Write to them where it says contact up far right on the tool bar. This happens too often – and the time of posting the daily show to the archive is erratic too.

  2. ann May 14, 2015 at 10:50 am - Reply

    Oh boy, this was a show to be heard. I accessed it earlier but through a file. To the first caller, talk about signs…your husband has been getting away with so much and though you’ve been knowing about his issues you chose not to suggest anything to him, especially his lying, the first eight lies should have well woken you up. Trust me, I’m not judging because I’ve had my share of gaslighting but I had to do something about it at the onset because things were not getting better, as a matter of fact things didn’t get better but that was then this now, thank God I acted on the situation and got help for myself because my ex was not about to do anything but continue making life terrible for both of us. I pray you release the strength that God has already put in you and either move forward or suggest strongly to your husband to get help, if not…..Your life must go on. Christian or not. Blessings to you.

    • Pat May 16, 2015 at 1:47 pm - Reply

      Heather, your husband suffers from Little Man Syndrome (LMS) and he sounds like a psychopath, in addition to pathological liar. He sounds like a child trying to stir strife. Not sure why you married him but I’m sure he hid that part of himself. The lying shows he has deeper issues that will come out eventually. I’m so thankful I don’t have to babysit such a man.

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