New Life Live: November 21, 2014

Topics: DatingAngerPornographyHoardingGender IdentityParenting 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Jill HubbardMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. Why do I get so irritated with my boyfriend? 
  2. My husband is in denial after I found his porn again; what now? 
  3. Would ADD meds help me focus and make decisions about my paper clutter? 
  4. My grandkids don’t want to come to Thanksgiving if their sister and her cross-dressing 5yo son come. 

Suggested Resources:
Is This The One
How We Love
Secrets Women Keep
Healing Is a Choice
How We Love Our Kids

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  1. Lisa Gruver November 21, 2014 at 9:58 am - Reply

    I found myself being so angry with the mother of Dillon, I could not even finish listening to the show.. She has totally bought in to the culture. I don’t know if she is a Christian or not but she reminds me of the parent that tries to live vicariously through her child. Just because she is confused about her sexuality she wants to impose this on her son. This very much in my opinion, is a horrible form of child abuse.

    • Mim November 21, 2014 at 12:05 pm - Reply

      I think I was doing an internal scream the whole time that caller was on. It just seems to keep getting worse.

  2. Mim November 21, 2014 at 12:03 pm - Reply

    All the calls today were important but I sure do wish that the last call had been first because it really warranted a lot of attention. As a grandmother of two, I cannot imagine being in the shoes of that great-grandmother. How sad about the little boy. I have granddaughters but just because they wear cowboy boots and a cowboy hat during playtime would their parents determine they are having an identity crisis that would result in pretending they are crying out to go as the opposite gender! I hope the caller is strong enough to follow the advice that was given. A call to DFACS needs to be placed and the pre-school should at the least be notified of the boys true gender. (I thought I hear the caller say the child goes to school as a girl with no one but family knowing he is a boy). My heart just cries for this child because life just seems to be so mixed up. I will pray that the mother of the child is open to listening and that the family can find a loving way to communicate with her regarding this issues. Also, good call on the dad, Milan is right, sounds like he just knows how to make a woman pregnant but lacks the skills to be a husband and a father.

  3. Zoya DiCaprio November 22, 2014 at 6:20 pm - Reply

    I have first hand experience with situation like Dilon’s family. The only thing that helped was healthy people reaching out and loving the parents without judgments and condemnation.

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