New Life Live: October 20, 2015

Topics: Marriage, Affairs, Boundaries, Molestation
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop
Guest Host: Jason Martinkus

Caller Questions:

  1. My wife wants a divorce after 30yrs without biblical grounds; how do I save my marriage?
  2. What can I do about my husband getting help but still unapologetic about his affairs?
  3. My dad was inappropriate with my young daughter; what boundaries can we set?
  4. What should I do about my husband wanting his girlfriend and me to all live together?

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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  1. Matt October 21, 2015 at 7:01 am - Reply

    Regarding the first caller, My sense is that, since she moved out an year ago, She is already with someone else. The caller is perhaps wasting his time and should be prepared to move on.

  2. ann October 21, 2015 at 7:48 am - Reply

    Dear caller #2 (Jill), I am so sorry you are going through this with your husband but more so that you’re still going through it. Your husband is enjoying the affairs and have been for sometime now. If you continue to allow him to keep walking all over you he will because he’s not losing anything (trust me, he is). Please gird up and seek counseling and or a support group for yourself, if he wants to continue living a lie and the affairs then so be it but you are going to have to decide when enough is enough. I’ll be praying for you. Lastly, and this is not just directed to the callers or Jill but I just don’t understand why you’d want to continue being with someone that CLEARLY does not want to be with you. I mean I know we can be deceived by lies, stupidity on our part, and what not but, I don’t know maybe it’s me.

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