New Life Live: October 21, 2014

Topics: MarriageDatingPornographySexual IntegrityBoundariesLeadership 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Henry CloudDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. My ex-husband and I are dating, but I just found out he wants to date ten other women.
  2. I am starting to hate my husband because of his porn; how do I forgive him? 
  3. Is Changes That Heal a book that needs to be read and processed with a small group or can I go through it by myself? 
  4. How can I be a good manager after being unemployed so long? 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Every Man’s Battle
Changes That Heal
Healing Is a Choice
Boundaries for Leaders

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  1. Pat October 21, 2014 at 2:29 pm - Reply

    I got to wonder about the first call. Is the book ‘Is this the one’ for women only? Sheri talks highly of the book and how she went through the challenge of dating 10 or more. I know this woman’s husband went away for the weekend. Is that because the person he dated is far away, or is it assumed that they are sleeping together? Is it assumed he cannot date 10 because he cannot be trusted to just date?

  2. ann November 25, 2014 at 8:25 am - Reply

    Debra, who’s a pastor and married to a pastor…what are your beliefs? I understand you are hurting and your husband is doing nothing about his porn addition, though he’s a pastor he also has issues, issues that need to be addressed and dealt with. Debra, this is not your problem it’s your husbands problem, he has to want to get the help, you cannot do that for him. Don’t let his addition bring you down if he’s not interested in getting help, you have your life and a responsibility from God to continue sheparding. I will say a very special prayer for you.

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