New Life Live: September 11, 2014

Topics: AffairsForgivenessVerbal AbuseIntimacyDating 
Hosts: Dr. Sheri KefferMilan Yerkovich with Larry Sonnenburg

Caller Questions:

  1. My verbally abusive husband holds my affair against me and refuses counseling; what can I do? 
  2. I have no desire to be intimate with my husband, but I love him. 
  3. How do I break free from an abusive man I dated 15yrs ago and still love? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Forgiveness CD
Healing Is a Choice

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  1. Linda Barron September 11, 2014 at 10:45 am - Reply

    What is EMDR?

    • Matt September 11, 2014 at 2:42 pm - Reply

      It’s a way of treating patients who have undergone trauma and have PTSD. There is more information on

  2. ann September 11, 2014 at 10:51 am - Reply

    To the last caller, the one that’s been with this man for 15 years. I suggest you start meeting other people, this man has a hold on you, a strong hold that you need to break, I’m sure he’s not forcing himself on you or holding you against your will, he obviously does not feel the same way toward you. He’s lied to you, cheated on you, and continues to disrespect you. Not sure why you’d want to continue having any communication with him at all. You are wasting much time by allowing this man to come in and out of your life. Be strong and prayed up and trust God and know that you can trust yourself. Love should not feel the way that it does coming from this man, he is hurting you all the time. It’s up to you to be healed, only you know what you want and what you need to be free from this man who does not love you.

  3. jeneh September 11, 2014 at 12:26 pm - Reply

    EPHESIANS 4:17-18
    This i say, therefore, and testify in the lord, that you should no longer walk as the rest of the gentiles walk, in the futility of their mind,

    Having their understanding darkened, being alienated from the life of God, because of the ignorance that is in them, because of the blindness of their hearts;
    {people stop playing with God when He say He do not want to see unclean thing in your camp you have to know that He is God. let me take the DNA test because I am so ready for it. If not the devil will destroy this land with his fornication with all of his unclean spirits so let all of you just believe God not devil Amen? to see if am God is so good therefore the devil do not let you believe God at all he want you know that his money is every thing but let me telling something our God is every thing do not forget that, never.You just have to believe God because He is God He know what He is doing Amen.? Thank you God for your word in Jesus name. Amen}
    HEBREWS 13:21
    Make you complete in every good work to do His will, working in you what is well pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be glory forever and ever. Amen.

  4. jeneh September 11, 2014 at 12:55 pm - Reply

    One more thing you need to know that unclean spirits are in the Christian shelter I will tell you more about that woman and me in that shelter because God know’s, why she came there; some one unclean spirit let her come there after me but God know them all even if they do not believe God at all. they do every thing just to get money not in truth. But people the believers do not know that this people are doing bad spirits work with the believer here in this nation. For God know every thing about every one Amen?

  5. Pat September 14, 2014 at 8:52 pm - Reply

    Sandy, the guy is a psychopath. He controls with flattery, telling you what you want to hear, and by keeping you questioning his lies and craziness. You probably make excuses for his bad behavior. Once you realize he is wacked you will start to heal. Check out There are so many guys like that who prey on nurturing women, and there are probably many others he also does it to. I think you can do better but perhaps you expected Mr Sweet talker to come to you so you didn’t see the snake in disguise?

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