New Life Live: September 24, 2014

Topics: PornographySelf-ConfidenceAffairsGuiltAdult ChildrenGrief
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Sheri KefferMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. My 75yo husband still won’t admit he has a problem with porn; what else can I do? 
  2. How do I deal with a lack of self-confidence after my traumatic past? 
  3. Should I file for divorce after my husband had an affair and got an STD? 
  4. I can’t shake the guilt over my adult kids; why do I keep trying to fix them? 

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Battle
How We Love
Changes That Heal
Healing Is a Choice

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  1. ann September 26, 2014 at 10:54 am - Reply

    Dear Ann, not sure how long you two have been married but it seems that there’s been problems in your marriage for much longer than the affair or finding out about the STD your husband contracted. You did in fact forgive too quickly and now your husband feels that he can have even more affairs, sad but true. Love is so blinding, however, we pretty much blind ourselves and make things what we want them to be. I’m sure you love your husband so I pray that he’s willing to seek medical treatment for his STD and will join you with counseling sessions. By the way, some STD’s are with you for life.

    • Pat September 27, 2014 at 11:13 pm - Reply

      Well said. We do tend to believe what we want to believe. Also part of that is the deception from the other party. They never show you their bad side. It’s sad the way men always think they can go off and sneak in these affairs, and I am very sorry that Ann has to deal with him. I am glad however it came back to bite him. Just pray that Ann stays protected from him and doesn’t catch anything. It’s real hard to mess with dogs and not catch fleas.

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