New Life Live: August 19, 2016

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From the Archives of New Life Live, This Show Originally Aired in July 2004


Topics: Affairs, Reconciliation, Family, Difficult Conversations, Lying, Separation
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. I was the unfaithful one in my marriage and we divorced 5yrs ago; what do I need to do so we can reconcile and have a real relationship?
  2. Is it OK to walk away from my destructive family? I fear physical harm after leaving the Mormon faith.
  3. I attended the funeral of my ex-fiancé and told his wife I was only friends with him. Should I come clean?
  4. My husband said he cheated during our separation and then said it’s not true; what should I believe?

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Marriage
Who’s Pushing Your Buttons by John Townsend  (not available from New Life)
Every Woman’s Battle

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New Life Live: July 25, 2016

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Topics: Homosexuality, Parenting, Adult Children, Marriage, Sexual Intimacy, Depression, Sexual Integrity, Pornography, Suicide
Hosts: Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard with Larry Sonnenburg

Caller Questions:

  1. My 27yo son lives in Germany and wants me to pave the way to tell his dad that he is gay.
  2. I thank God for the Intimacy in Marriage Weekend and the hope I have now! 
  3. Why do I still have anxiety and depression after medication, counseling and prayer? 
  4. I set boundaries for my sexually addicted husband, and he told the church I was abusive. Shall I leave the church?
  5. After my 25yo nephew committed suicide, we found out he was in a homosexual relationship and was molested as a child.

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving our Parents
Forgiving our Fathers and Mothers
Just Us
Life Recovery Bible
Surviving Suicide CD

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New Life Live: July 21, 2016

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Topics: Alcohol, Affairs, Adult Children, Mental Illness, Panic Attacks, Divorce, In-laws
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. How do we get our 46yo alcoholic bipolar daughter to move out?
  2. I just found evidence of my husband’s phone affair and he says it is OK because he didn’t love me at the time.
  3. Will my 42yo mentally ill son be OK in prison after trying to strangle me?
  4. How can I help my 28yo son get help with his severe panic disorder?
  5. Should I drop my court case against my ex-husband to improve our relationship in dealing with the kids?
  6. How should I respond to my husband wanting to please his mom at the expense of my feelings?

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
Life Recovery Bible
Emotional Freedom Workbook

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New Life Live: July 18, 2016

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Topics: Boundaries, Affairs, Fears, Mother Issues, Forgiveness
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. What boundaries should I set for my husband who had an affair and says he loves me?
  2. I want to leave the guy I am living with; why do I fear being alone?
  3. How do accept the man my mom is in love with? He is much younger and in prison.
  4. My husband keeps draining my savings without paying it back; should I forgive him?

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Marriage
Healing is a Choice
Is This The One
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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New Life Live: July 12, 2016

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Topics: Sexual Integrity, Lying, Brain Injury, Nightmares, Marijuana, Church Life, Avoiders
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. Thanks for being on the air! You are a lifesaver to many!
  2. My husband is slipping and lying about it to his sexual integrity support group; what is my next step?
  3. I fell off of a cliff 2yrs ago; is there anything more I can do for my brain injury and nightmares?
  4. How can I motivate my three grown sons to stop smoking marijuana?
  5. As a pastor, what should I do about my daughter living with her boyfriend? She is the worship leader.
  6. My husband has been giving me the silent treatment the last two weeks and I do not know what to do.

Suggested Resources:
NIV Spiritual Renewal Study Bible
Rescued
Life Recovery Bible
Boundaries for Leaders
7 Minute Marriage Solution

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New Life Live: July 7, 2016

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Topics: Alcohol, Pornography, Difficult Conversations, Forgiveness, Self Worth, Drug Addiction
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. It has been 6yrs since I attended Healing Is a Choice and stopped drinking!
  2. I have not been able to break my porn addiction on my own; what can I do?
  3. How do I help my future daughter-in-law who seems to be fixated on me?
  4. What do I do to feel more secure about my new wife’s past relationships?
  5. My 28yo daughter just started a treatment for meth addiction; how can I help her?

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Battle
Just Us
Life Recovery Bible
Life Recovery Workbook

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New Life Live: July 5, 2016

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Topics: Same-sex Attraction, Narcissists, Divorce, Intimacy
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop and Guest Host Jason Martinkus

Caller Questions:

  1. I am married to a woman and struggling with attraction to men; what should I do?
  2. How do I heal after divorcing my narcissist husband 4yrs ago?
  3. My husband and I have not been intimate for 15yrs; is there a conference that can help us?

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Battle
Regret-Free Living
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Every Man’s Marriage

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New Life Live: June 28, 2016

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Topics: Dating, Christian Walk, Depression, Adult Children, Intimacy
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I tell the man I have lived with for 12yrs that there will be no more sex until we marry?
  2. What is the difference between depression and laziness?
  3. My wife and I have not been intimate since her medical procedure 3yrs ago; is that bad for a marriage?

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Healing Is a Choice
Every Man’s Battle
Every Heart Restored

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New Life Live: June 22, 2016

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Topics: Affairs, Pornography, Trust, Separation, Grief, Intimacy
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. After my affair, my wife is now in love with a woman; should I wait it out?
  2. My husband is doing porn; why does he hide texts and lie to me?
  3. I suspect my separated husband is manic depressive but he will not do anything about it.
  4. How do I move on from a traumatic job loss that I can’t stop thinking about?
  5. I said disrespectful things jokingly to my wife and she will not be intimate with me; how do I fix it?

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Worthy of Her Trust
Healing Is a Choice
How We Love

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New Life Live: June 21, 2016

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Topics: Sexual Abuse, Grief, Dating, Teens, Parenting, Custody, Controller, Pornography
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My ex just got out of prison for raping our daughter; how do I get past it and move on to a new relationship?
  2. My teen kids don’t want to see me even though the court says I can; how do I turn this around?
  3. Am I unforgiving if I protect myself from a verbally abusive husband?
  4. Why do I allow my separated husband to control me and why do I continue to believe his lies?
  5. Will my husband ever break free from his pornography addiction?

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
12 Laws of Life Recovery
Raising Great Kids
Every Man’s Battle

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