New Life Live: October 21, 2014

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Topics: MarriageDatingPornographySexual IntegrityBoundariesLeadership 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Henry CloudDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. My ex-husband and I are dating, but I just found out he wants to date ten other women.
  2. I am starting to hate my husband because of his porn; how do I forgive him? 
  3. Is Changes That Heal a book that needs to be read and processed with a small group or can I go through it by myself? 
  4. How can I be a good manager after being unemployed so long? 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Every Man’s Battle
Changes That Heal
Healing Is a Choice
Boundaries for Leaders

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New Life Live: October 17, 2014

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Topics: CounselingSexual IntegrityChurch LifeGrief 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Henry CloudDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. My therapist was very harsh with me; is she going to dismiss me? 
  2. Can I still pursue being a pastor if I have fathered a child out of wedlock? 
  3. After divorce, loss of income, and cancer, how do I move forward from grief? 
  4. I don’t agree with my sister moving in with her boyfriend; how can I love and support her? 

Suggested Resources:
Necessary Endings  (not available from New Life)
Just Us
7 Minute Marriage Solution

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New Life Live: October 16, 2014

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Topics: MarriageSuicideDepressionAdoptionFather Issues
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I fix the things my husband doesn’t like about me so we can stay married? 
  2. I am 47yo and I don’t want to live if my medical issues affect my ability to get pregnant.
  3. Comment: Thank you for all of the advice which helped me and my family! 
  4. I am 44yo and meeting my birth father for the first time; do you have any suggestions? 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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New Life Live: October 14, 2014

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Topics: ControllerAvoiderAdult ChildrenAffairsSexual IntegrityMarriageDating, Counseling
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Henry CloudDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. How can I help my daughter who is a controller married to an avoider who shuts down?
  2. When is it appropriate for me to stop encouraging my friend to stay married to a cheating husband? 
  3. Every Man’s Battle was fantastic; how can I get my wife to Women In the Battle? 
  4. As a single mom, how do I know if the man I am dating is the one I should marry? 
  5. I am seeing two therapists; is it lying if I don’t tell the first therapist about the second one? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Every Mans Battle
Is This the One

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New Life Live: October 10, 2014

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Topics: NarcissistsAnxietyDepressionSeparationDivorce 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My friend is a narcissist; should I pull away from her even though our kids are friends? 
  2. Should I handle my anxiety and depression differently since they are getting worse as I age? 
  3. My wife left me after 27yrs due to the difficult life I have given her; what can I do now? 
  4. My 60yo cousin is very depressed due to declining health and I am planning a visit; what can I do for her? 
  5. Why doesn’t the Bible say it’s OK to divorce due to abuse? 

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers
Rethink How You Think
7 Minute Marriage Solution

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New Life Live: October 9, 2014

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Topics: DepressionAnxietyParentingDivorceSeparationForgivenessGuiltBullying, MarriageAlcoholics 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My doctor said I am depressed, but I don’t believe it. 
  2. How do I protect my kids now that my husband is leaving us? 
  3. Why do I still feel guilty after asking forgiveness and repaying the money I took from work? 
  4. What help is there for my ADHD daughter who is being bullied and lashes out at me? 
  5. Should I tithe on my inheritance if my non-Christian husband says no? 
  6. Is marriage to an alcoholic husband worth fighting for? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Secrets Women Keep
Forgiving the Unforgivable
How We Love Our Kids
Book of Life Recovery

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New Life Live: October 8, 2014

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Topics: IntimacyMarriageAdult ChildrenDepressionDifficult ConversationsDrug AddictionDivorceDating 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. I do not want sex or a divorce; can I live as friends with the man I never wanted to marry? 
  2. How can I be a support to my 30yo daughter who had an affair, drinks a lot and is depressed? 
  3. A church friend borrowed money and is not paying it back; how do I handle it? 
  4. My brother is deep into drug addiction; how do I help him without enabling him? 
  5. How do I move on and date after being divorced for 7yrs? 


Suggested Resources:
You Are What You think
Healing Is a Choice
Book of Life Recovery
Is This The One

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New Life Live: October 7, 2014

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Topics: AffairsSexual IntegrityDatingHomosexualsAffairsBoundaries 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband won’t take care of his sexual addiction despite me leaving in the past; what do I do? 
  2. I have a baby with a non-believer and we are not married; can we make it work? 
  3. Is is OK that I can’t make myself attend my son’s wedding to a man? 
  4. What boundaries should I set after my husband had an affair and we separated? 

Suggested Resources:
Every Mans Battle
Every Heart Restored
Rethink How You Think

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Moving In Together

Janet wrote in worried that her young adult daughter is going move in with her boyfriend. “Living in sin” goes against their family values, but what can a mom do? Dr. Dave Stoop has some advice. Check out what he said.

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How Can I Cope With My OCD?

Greg called in to our show asking for help coping with his diagnosed Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, which contributed to the break-up of his marriage. Dr. Dave Stoop, Milan Yerkovich and Steve work on getting to the root of his issues with anxiety. Watch the video.

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