New Life Live: March 6, 2015

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Topics: GrandparentingSchizophreniaForgivenessAlcoholicsFriendshipBoundaries,Church LifeAdult Children 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I gain custody of my schizophrenic daughter’s kids instead of them going to foster care? 
  2. Am I expected to forgive my 26yo daughter after her fifth detox from alcohol? 
  3. Comment: The trucker who didn’t want to stop driving is in denial and not thinking about his family. 
  4. Why do I keep attracting friends who hurt me? 
  5. Should I stay in a Spanish-speaking church for my wife when I don’t speak Spanish? 
  6. Comment: The lady who was dating an alcoholic should set boundaries because that is how I quit smoking. 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love Our Kids
Life Recovery Bible
Every Man’s Bible
Boundaries
You Are What You Think

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New Life Live: March 5, 2015

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Topics: DatingMarriageParentingDivorceSexual IntegrityAdult ChildrenGetting UnstuckSexual Abuse 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. Is it too much to ask my fiancée to read Every Woman’s Battle? 
  2. Our 21yo son lives at home; how do I help get him unstuck? 
  3. My ex is moving his girlfriend in; how do I protect our kids? 
  4. Do I leave my husband who was jailed for lewd behavior with our own kids? 

Suggested Resources:
Is This The One
You Are What You Think
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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New Life Live: March 4, 2015

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Topics: ParentingAffairsFraudTrustGrandparenting 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. John TownsendDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. How can I teach my kids about healthy marriage after divorcing their abusive dad? 
  2. I am separated; should I stay with the woman I got pregnant or the one I love? 
  3. What kind of relationship should I have with my baby’s father since we are not a couple? 
  4. The discipline I give our 10yo and 14yo is not working; what else should I do when they disobey me? 
  5. How can I get my husband to do the right thing after finding out he filed a fraudulent joint tax return? 
  6. What will it take for my daughter to stop sweeping her 7yo and 10yo sons’ welfare under the rug? 

Suggested Resources:
Every Young Woman’s Battle
Raising Great Kids
Boundaries with Kids
NIV Spiritual Renewal Study Bible

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New Life Live: March 3, 2015

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Topics: Adult ChildrenAnxietySubstance AbuseAffairs
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop and Guest Host Sandra McCollom, Author of I Tried Until I Almost Died

Caller Questions:

  1. My 26yo son lives with us and has severe anxiety; how can I help him? 
  2. Is tough love appropriate to kick out my 19yo son using drugs? 
  3. Should I let my 18yo daughter get married? 
  4. Am I enabling my husband to have an affair? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is A Choice
Life Recovery Bible
You Are What You Think
Is This The One
Secrets Women Keep

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New Life Live: February 26, 2015

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Topics: ForgivenessGaslightingNarcissistsMarriageFearPornographyParenting, GriefChristian WalkParent IssuesSelf Worth
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My company wants to stop using cash in the cafeteria by implanting a chip in our hand; is that biblical? 
  2. After being raised by critical parents and not measuring up to my sister, I find myself defensive at any criticism. 
  3. Do gaslighting and narcissism go hand in hand? 
  4. How do I get my new wife to go to church with me? 
  5. Is it a problem that my 11yo granddaughter hates being alone? 
  6. My husband of 30yrs does not want to get help for his porn use; what can I do? 
  7. The letter you sent out about grief really spoke to me. 

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving our Parents
Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers
7 Minute Marriage Solution
How We Love Our Kids
Worthy of Her Trust
Healing Is a Choice

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New Life Live: February 23, 2015

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Topics: DatingSelf WorthMarriageSexual IntegrityAffairsAging ParentsFriendshipSexual AbuseParentingBrain Issues 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. John TownsendDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. I feel like a puppet because a man pays for everything for me; how do I end things? 
  2. How do I stop my husband from spending time with another woman? 
  3. Is it OK to go against my elderly mother’s desire to seek faith healing and refuse medication? 
  4. How do I become a better friend to someone who is diagnosed with borderline personality disorder? 
  5. My father-in-law sexually abused his nieces; do I allow him to be with our kids? 
  6. Bad things keep happening to me; is it PTSD or demonic? 

Suggested Resources:
God Will Make a Way  (not available from New Life)
Boundaries in Marriage
NIV Spiritual Renewal Study Bible
How We Grow  (not available from New Life)
Should Married People Have Friends of the Opposite Sex? from tv.newlife.com

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New Life Live: February 19, 2015

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Topics: Physical AbuseLawsuitsParentingSexual IntegrityMarijuanaBorderline 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. How can I get help for my 37yo daughter? Her physically abusive husband took out a restraining order on me. 
  2. Is it OK for a Christian to sue family members for money? 
  3. My 10yo son is looking at online porn and I don’t know what to do. 
  4. Should I show tough love to my 18yo daughter about smoking pot since she has a baby and lives with us? 
  5. My borderline wife is making false accusations about me; is it the Lexapro? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Preparing Your Son for Every Man’s Battle
How We Love

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New Life Live: February 17, 2015

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Topics: AlcoholicsGrandparentingHomosexualsGriefSexual IntegritySeparation 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. While my daughter-in-law is in alcohol treatment, how do I deal with my 7 grandkids? 
  2. It bothers me on the last call that you said the husband “allowed” his wife to be an alcoholic. 
  3. How can I deal with same sex attraction after being sexually abused as a child? 
  4. I lost my dad last month; why am I now so angry with my husband? 
  5. How do I stop my lustful thoughts as a single man? 
  6. My husband took a break and separated; how do I win him back? 

Suggested Resources:
Book of Life Recovery
Life Recovery Bible
Worthy of Her Trust
Rethink How You Think
7 Minute Marriage Solution

This is the Women In The Battle testimony Steve read on the radio today:

Before coming to this workshop I had been working to start the restoration part after my husband’s infidelity. I was having trouble expressing my feelings and concerns to my husband. I will not have any problems with that now. I had been so disconnected for years that it was so refreshing to be open with the women in my group. I was affirmed by Sheri’s teaching. I leave here with a new attitude and a peaceful spirit. I know that I am a “warrior princess” and I can effectively handle whatever comes up with God by my side. I encourage every woman dealing with infidelity to sign up for this workshop immediately. Open your heart and see God move. – Denise

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New Life Live: February 16, 2015

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Topics: AlcoholChurch LifeTrustHomosexualsSexual IntegrityAffairs 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. After 12yrs of drinking, my brother has been sober for one week; how can I help if he relapses? 
  2. I have been sober for 8yrs and want to reach out to the men in church to get them to open up. 
  3. Comment: Christians should be calling to protest the stores that openly carry 50 Shades of Grey merchandise. 
  4. How do I earn my wife’s trust after sharing with her about my same sex attraction and prostitute past? 
  5. Should I move back in if my wife continues in an emotional affair after her physical affair? 

Suggested Resources:
Life Recovery Bible
Every Man’s Bible
Just Us
How We Love

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New Life Live: February 13, 2015

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Topics: Sexual IntegrityPhysical AbuseDatingFearDivorceParenting 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband has been unfaithful the whole 14yrs of our marriage; does he really want to change? 
  2. Should I report a church member who physically abused his family? 
  3. I am concerned how my fiancée looks at men and might be into porn as well. 
  4. After a lifetime of struggling with fear, how do I conquer it for good? 
  5. As a divorced father, how do I work through the pain of seeing my daughters love their stepfather? 

Suggested Resources:
Every Heart Restored
NIV Spiritual Renewal Study Bible
Every Woman’s Battle
You Are What You Think
Rethink How You Think

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