New Life Live: June 5, 2014

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Topics: AffairsMarriageNarcissistsDepressionPornographyTrust
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. I had an affair 3 years ago; how do I tell my husband? 
  2. My denial of being a narcissist is affecting my marriage. 
  3. Do you think antidepressants affect my ability to be a missionary? 
  4. My husband said he dealt with his porn; can I trust him while he is living 4hrs away? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Healing Is a Choice
7 Minute Marriage Solution

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Why do we yell at our kids?

Why Do We Yell at our Kids

Dr. Dave Stoop has some interesting observations on the evolution of discipline, and he offers some steps you can take to make sure that you make amends if you verbally cross the line with your kids. Watch NOW!

Divorce Proof your Marriage

Divorce Proof Your Marriage

Divorce is an all-too-common reality in our society. How can we protect our marriages? Dr. Dave Stoop has a few simple methods to keep couples together, and there are even studies to prove they work. Click the image below for the answer to how to divorce-proof your marriage!

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New Life Live: May 30, 2014

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Topics: Adult ChildrenDrug AddictionMarriageAdoptionNarcissist
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. My 52yo son was just released from prison and is still a cocaine addict; how do I stop enabling him? 
  2. I have nothing but praise for the Healing Is A Choice Weekend. 
  3. Do you think we need to work on our marriage before we adopt? 
  4. How do I have a relationship with my dad without my narcissist mom? 

Suggested Resources:
Walking Into Walls
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Raising Great Kids
How We Love Our Kids

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The Selfish Act of Forgiving

Many people don’t quite understand how the concept of forgiveness works. Dr. Dave Stoop is an expert.  A New Life TV subscriber asked him to explain why Jesus taught that by forgiving others, we help ourselves the most. It’s an important concept. Take a minute and watch the video. Click on the image below to watch.

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New Life Live: May 23, 2014

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Topics: AlcoholicsAddictionsTrustDivorceNarcissistsForgiveness
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. Is it OK for a Christian to drink socially? 
  2. How do I rebuild trust with my sex addict husband? 
  3. My narcissistic, bipolar husband is in prison; how do I tell him it’s over? 
  4. How do I forgive myself for killing a little boy while riding my motorcycle? 
  5. Comment: Alcohol kills and I wish churches would speak up on this issue. 

Suggested Resources:
More Jesus, Less Religion
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers

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Is Anger a Sin?

We’ve gotten lots of emails wanting to know more about anger and angry people. What about when your anger is justified? Is anger a sin? Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard and I got together to talk about an emotion no one likes to admit they’re simmering in. Click on the image to watch now.

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New Life Live: May 20, 2014

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Topics: ParentingTeensAngerMarriageDepressionFearAnxietyNarcissists
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband and I disagree on letting our 13yo daughter listen to secular music. 
  2. How should I handle my husband having outbursts of anger and not getting help? 
  3. I am a widow in my first year of marriage to a widower; should I still be struggling to adjust? 
  4. What can I do to stop feeling hopeless and fearful and depressed? 
  5. How can I help my 15yo daughter overcome narcissism? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love Our Kids
Boiling Point: Understanding Men and Anger   (no longer available through New Life)
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Healing Is a Choice

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New Life Live: April 29, 2014

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Topics: ConfrontationForgivenessMother IssuesPornographyBlended FamiliesFear And Anxiety
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. John TownsendDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I get my live-in girlfriend to help out financially? 
  2. I have a lot of resentment towards my mom since childhood; how do I have a relationship with her? 
  3. What should I say when my husband invites me to watch porn? 
  4. Do you have any blended family advice on how my 13yo son and his stepmom can get along? 
  5. How can I be more open in a support group? 

Suggested Resources:
Changes That Heal
Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers
Healing Is a Choice
You Are What You Think

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New Life Live: April 25, 2014

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Topics: DatingTrustGriefBlended FamiliesBoundariesParenting
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. I have trust issues with my long-time fiancé; should I stay with him for the sake of our child? 
  2. How can I grieve the loss of my dad 9mos ago from a heart attack? 
  3. My kids are rejecting their new stepdad even though he is getting help through Every Man’s Battle. 
  4. After standing up to my mom, our family issues leaked over to church; should we move away? 
  5. My ex-girlfriend abandoned her 3yo son and I am raising him; what should I say when he asks? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable
More Jesus, Less Religion
How We Love Our Kids
Every Man’s Bible

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