New Life Live: October 22, 2012

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Topics: Parenting, Divorce, Forgiveness, Sexual Integrity, Dating, Self Worth,
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Sheri Denham
Caller Questions:

  1. How should I deal with 8yo daughter who is acting out during our divorce?
  2. My wife can’t forgive my past sexual sins; what can I do?
  3. Is it wise to date a man who left his wife for a younger woman?
  4. I feel beaten up emotionally by my wife; how do I stop the cycle?

Suggested Resources:
Walking Into Walls
Every Man’s Battle
Just Us

New Life Live: October 17, 2012

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Topics: Dating, Panic Attacks, Adoption, Parenting, Bi-polar, Introvert, Grief,
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Sheri Denham
Caller Questions:

  1. How do I get a date worth keeping?
  2. Why do I have panic attacks, and how do I overcome them?
  3. I struggle with not liking my adopted son. What can I do to feel that love?
  4. It was helpful in finding out that my child is Bi-polar.
  5. Can I carry being an introvert too far?
  6. I was able to grieve the loss of my parents and go through the anger of being adopted.
  7. How do I get out of a bad dating situation?

Suggested Resources:
Is This the One
Forgiving our Parents Forgiving Ourselves
The Book of Life Recovery

New Life Live: September 18, 2012

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Topics: ForgivenessPornographyGriefAdult ChildrenConfrontationParenting,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions:

  1. Can I overcome my learned helplessness? 
  2. Is there help for someone like me who lies to cover up my porn addiction? 
  3. How does one learn to grieve when you don’t feel like it? 
  4. A family argument turned into a hate letter from my 32yo daughter. 
  5. How do I get my husband to change from being a “friend” of the kids to being their father? 

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Every Man’s Bible
Walking Into Walls
Book of Life Recovery

New Life Live: September 17, 2012

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Topics: Adult ChildrenSeparationAffairsBipolarGrief,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Sheri Denham
Caller Questions:

  1. How should I handle two of my sons withholding their kids from me? 
  2. We separated during our 4th year of marriage because my husband had affairs. 
  3. I was diagnosed Bipolar II and can’t take meds; can I treat without them? 
  4. My family deserted me and I have stage 4 cancer; what should I do? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving Our Parents
Every Man’s Battle

New Life Live: September 14, 2012

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Topics: MarriageBoundariesAffairsDivorceAdult ChildrenParenting,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions:

  1. Why do my wife’s emotions flip in a heartbeat? 
  2. Did my wife go overboard setting boundaries after my flirting and porn? 
  3. Should I divorce my emotionally abusive husband? I suffer from PTSD and depression.
  4. My 12yo grandson was molested will he be able to lead a normal life? 
  5. Is it biblical to not let my ex-wife come back? I am ready to move on. 
  6. Should I allow my 18yo son to live with his married friends? 

Suggested Resources:
The Book of Life Recovery
Forgiving Our Parents
Every Young Man’s Battle
Healing Is A Choice

New Life Live: August 29, 2012

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Topics: Affairs And InfidelityPornographyWeight LossDivorceChristian WalkAnger,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions:

  1. My husband’s ex-affair keeps calling him; how do we get rid of her? 
  2. I found porn on the home computer; should I stay with my husband? 
  3. Due to fears and food addiction, I have become 1 
  4. lbs. overweight; what can I do? 
  5. Interview with Mary Lou, who has kept off weight for years with the Weight Loss Weekend. 
  6. Why don’t you counsel women to divorce when they call looking for permission? 
  7. When I share Christ, I get really angry with people! 

Suggested Resources:
Every Heart Restored
Lose It For Life
Toxic Faith

New Life Live: August 28, 2012

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Topics: Sexual IntegrityDatingBipolarPorn AddictionWeight LossChristian Walk,Grief,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions:

  1. I found nude photos of my husband in the trash; should I separate? 
  2. How can I make it work with my bipolar girlfriend who also has PTSD? 
  3. Do you have any tips on how to publicly disclose my porn addiction recovery at church?
  4. Interview with Michelle Spadafora, exercise instructor at New Life Weight Loss Weekend. 
  5. Does God have more than one calling for me? 
  6. How can I grieve the death of my sweetheart one month ago? 

Suggested Resources:
Every Woman’s Battle
Is This The One
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable

New Life Live: August 14, 2012

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Topics: DivorcePornographyGamblingAddictionsAnger,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Sheri Denham
Caller Questions:

  1. How do I get over the guilt from my divorce? 
  2. Our counselor does not address my husband’s pornography and gambling addictions. 
  3. How can I help my mom who is angry at everyone and jealous, too? 
  4. I wake up with my teeth chattering, and I am not cold. Is that nervousness? 

Suggested Resources:
Walking Into Walls
Life Recovery Book

Link to New Life Live: August 14, 2012

New Life Live: August 13, 2012

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Topics: Christian WalkPersonality SplittingParentingMarriageAddictions,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopMilan Yerkovich
Caller Questions:

  1. Are you a busy body if you report a crime? 
  2. Do you think personality splits are Biblical? 
  3. My 8yo is happy, then sad. Could this be psychological? 
  4. Shall I give up on my unemployed husband? 
  5. My pastor said one should not remarry. What does the Bible say? 
  6. How can I help my pothead son? 

Suggested Resources:
People of the Bible Uncensored
How We Love Our Kids
Walking Into Walls
Healing Is a Choice

Link to New Life Live: August 13, 2012

New Life Live: August 7, 2012

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Topics: GriefDatingHomosexualityMarriageAvoiderDepression ,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions:

  1. Everything is triggering bad memories; how do I get to happy? 
  2. Should I marry a woman with a good heart even though I’m not attracted to her? 
  3. Comment for first caller that I was in the same dark place and worked through it! 
  4. How do you choose the right therapist for someone who wants to leave the gay lifestyle? 
  5. My husband of 27yrs is like a turtle; how can we connect? 
  6. I’m struggling with Isaiah 54: 
  7. “No weapon formed against you shall prosper.” 

Suggested Resources:
Is This The One
The Book of Life Recovery
How We Love
Healing Is a Choice

Link to New Life Live: August 7, 2012