New Life Live: December 16, 2014

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Topics: Borderline Personality DisorderAbandonmentMarriagePornographyParenting, Sexual IntegrityHomosexuality 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I deal with abandonment issues with a borderline husband? 
  2. What help exists for a husband involved with pornography, and how do I tell the kids? 
  3. I am devastated after finding out that my husband raped our adult daughter when she was young. 
  4. Is there something I can do to change my homosexual challenges? 

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving our Fathers and Mothers
5 Blind Spots

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Read the Testimony Steve read on the radio today from the wife of an EMB attendee.

New Life Live: December 11, 2014

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Topics: Adult ChildrenMarriageNarcissistsTrustIntimacySexual Integrity 
Hosts: Dr. John TownsendDr. Dave Stoop with Larry Sonnenburg

Caller Questions:

  1. My 30yo daughter is mad because I don’t want her dogs at our family Christmas dinner. 
  2. What ideas can you give me for a marriage with a wounded narcissist? 
  3. How do I trust my husband after finding a picture of his private parts and a picture of a naked woman? 
  4. Should I bring my ex-daughter-in-law to the Women In the Battle Weekend? 
  5. How can I encourage my daughter whose marriage has not been consummated after 3 years? 

Suggested Resources:
Boundaries
Who’s Pushing Your Buttons  (not available from New Life)
7 Minute Marriage Solution
7 Minute Marriage Solution Devotional Bible
How We Love

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New Life Live: December 9, 2014

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Topics: GriefMurderFuneralsSexual AddictionAlcoholics 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. How do we cope with my son seeing his brother shot and killed last month? 
  2. Jesus didn’t go to funerals; why do we have them? 
  3. Every Man’s Battle changed my life and I am no longer ashamed! 
  4. I reconciled with my husband 4mos ago and now he is drinking again. 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Life Recovery Bible
Book of Life Recovery

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New Life Live: December 2, 2014

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Topics: ForgivenessAngerParentingDatingBlended Family 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. The book Forgiving the Unforgivable gave me some great insight! 
  2. How do I tell my angry 13yo daughter that I don’t want her to date yet? 
  3. I am separated from my cheating husband; should I keep in contact with his kids? 
  4. How do I handle the hatred I have for my brothers who turned their back on our mom? 

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Every Man’s Bible

The link Steve mentioned on the radio is https://tv.newlife.com/offer/


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New Life Live: November 28, 2014

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Topics: DivorceSexual AbuseSexual IntegrityDatingDepression 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. Comment:  It is wise to learn from our mistakes; wiser to learn from the mistakes of others. 
  2. When I was married I felt like my husband raped me; how do I heal now that I’m divorced? 
  3. I fear my 3yr relationship will turn into my parents’ bad marriage; how can I change? 
  4. In my mid-50s, how do I find dates who are not on anti-depressants? 

Suggested Resources:
Life Recovery Bible
Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Healing Is a Choice
Secrets Women Keep
How We Love 

Here is the Every Man’s Battle testimony read by Steve on the radio:

Every man should attend this or similar program before they enter into a long term relationship. I strongly believe that I would have never fallen into the habits that I have fallen into if I had been equipped properly as I was coming of age. This is a powerful workshop that every man should embrace. – Greg


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New Life Live: November 27, 2014

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Topics: ForgivenessSexual AbuseDomestic ViolenceSeparationBoundaries 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I heal from my dad molesting me as a child? 
  2. Is separation the only option with an angry, volatile husband? 
  3. My husband moved another woman on our property without my consent; how do I set boundaries? 

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving Our Parents
Forgiving our Fathers and Mothers
7 Minute Marriage Solution

Here is the Lose it for Life testimony read by Steve on the radio:

For the first time in my life I told things in my life to a group of men that I never told to anyone. For the first time I my life I don’t feel ashamed of who I am. I feel that I have been liberated. I feel like God loved me and accepts me for who I am and not who I could be. I don’t feel like a failure. I came here to lose weight and that is just what I did. I’ve begun to release the emotional pain. So now I don’t need food to make me feel good; I already feel great. The key for me was not finding a solution to a weight problem but expressing the emotional pain that I have suppressed so deeply in my heart and soul for years. – James

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New Life Live: November 25, 2014

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Topics: ParentingDatingForgivenessDivorce 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband and I disagree about our 17yo son using our credit card. 
  2. How do I move forward after being burned with dating sites? 
  3. Shall I feel guilty because I did not provide a healthy, loving home for my daughter? 

Suggested Resources:
Every Young Man, God’s Man
Is This The One
Healing Is a Choice

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New Life Live: November 20, 2014

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Topics: PornographySexual IntegrityGuiltBoundariesPhysical Abuse, ParentingCounseling 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. John TownsendDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband said it’s no big deal when I caught him using porn. 
  2. I put my husband in jail for physical abuse; how do I stop feeling guilty? 
  3. My alcoholic, sex-addicted husband wants me to humble myself before he’ll get any help. 
  4. As a therapist, will I have a problem with dual relationships if I start a group in my small church? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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New Life Live: November 18, 2014

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Topics: Emotional AffairsDivorceParentingSexual IntegrityIntimacyDepression 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. Our 7yr marriage is in crisis because my husband is texting a woman. 
  2. How much should I say to my six kids about our pending divorce and why do I feel hypocritical? 
  3. What is acceptable for our sex life now that my husband has stopped going outside our marriage for sex? 
  4. Why did I suddenly get depressed over the last few months? 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
How We Love Our Kids
Healing Is a Choice

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New Life Live: November 12, 2014

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Topics: SeparationDivorceAffairsEMDRCounselingForgivenessParenting 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. John TownsendDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. My separated husband had an affair and says he loves us both; should I divorce? 
  2. Is EMDR safe to do with a secular counselor? 
  3. How do I stop thinking about my wife having an affair? 
  4. I can’t forgive my 9yo daughter for saying I’m ugly to her friends. 

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Healing Is a Choice


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