New Life Live: June 30, 2016

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Topics: Pornography, Parenting, Alcohol, Negative Thoughts
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Milan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. What should I do about my 7yo son looking at porn on the internet?
  2. I am frustrated because my husband can’t keep his word after we attend workshops.
  3. How do I get negative thoughts out of my head while I struggle with alcoholism?

Suggested Resources:
Preparing Your Son for Every Man’s Battle
Every Young Man’s Battle
Every Man’s Marriage
Life Recovery Bible

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New Life Live: June 24, 2016

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From the Archives of New Life Live, This Show Originally Aired on December 2, 2004

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Topics: Marriage, Dating, Difficult Conversations, Anger, Alcohol
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Henry Cloud

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I get my wife to stop using the book Every Man’s Marriage against me?
  2. Should I tell a fellow church leader that I want to be more than friends?
  3. My family rejected me when I got Lupus; how do I get over my anger towards them?
  4. I resent my husband now that he is drinking again and don’t know how to get over it.

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Marriage
How To Get a Date Worth Keeping
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Safe People  (current option for Hiding from Love)

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New Life Live: June 7, 2016

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Topics: Marriage, Avoider, Divorce, Dating, Sexual Integrity, Narcissist, Pornography, Parenting
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich and Guest Host Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

  1. I emotionally neglected my wife and she wants a divorce; how do I reconnect and save my marriage?
  2. How do I encourage the man I recently started dating to go to Every Man’s Battle?
  3. Can a narcissist change if he is also a sex addict?
  4. My 13yo son is looking at porn; how do we help him?

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Every Man’s Battle
Every Heart Restored
Every Young Man’s Battle

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New Life Live: May 27, 2016

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From the Archives of New Life Live, This Show Originally Aired November 16, 2004

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Topics: Newlyweds, Self Worth, Engagement, Christian Walk, Alcohol, Divorce
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Henry Cloud

Caller Questions:

  1. I am a newlywed and my husband was previously engaged to a woman who died; how do I get over comparing myself to her?
  2. How can my fiancé and I work out our different worship styles before we get married next week?
  3. I left my angry, alcoholic husband and he does not want to reconcile; is that biblical abandonment?

Suggested Resources:
Changes That Heal
Every Man’s Marriage
Every Man’s Bible
Boundaries in Marriage

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New Life Live: May 18, 2016

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Topics: Miscarriage, Grief, Sexual Integrity, Bipolar, Depression, Suicide
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich and Guest Host Jason Martinkus

Caller Questions:

  1. After my recent miscarriage, I am having trouble sorting out my thoughts and mistakenly think my husband is cheating.
  2. I attended the last Every Man’s Battle and want to encourage other men to come!
  3. How do I help my friend whose bipolar husband is depressed and suicidal?

Suggested Resources:
Toxic Faith
Every Man’s Bible
Emotional Freedom Workbook

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New Life Live: April 27, 2016

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Topics: Alcohol, Conflicts, Difficult Conversations, Sexual Integrity, Parenting, OCD, Intimacy
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. I was horrible to my family while I was addicted. How do they heal now that I have been sober for 2yrs?
  2. My husband would rather place blame than discuss the source of our conflicts; what can I do?
  3. What should I say to a college freshman who was dumped after she had sex?
  4. How do we tell our 18yo son that we are sending him to Every Man’s Battle with his dad?
  5. My OCD is triggered in unpleasant situations; how do I break this lifelong cycle?
  6. What can I do about intimacy when my husband’s actions do not match his words?

Suggested Resources:
Life Recovery Bible
12 Laws of Life Recovery
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Toxic Faith
Worthy of Her Trust
Every Young Man’s Battle
Emotional Freedom Workbook

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New Life Live: February 26, 2016

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From the Archives of New Life Live, This Show Originally Aired January 28, 2004

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Topics: Dating, Drug Abuse, Grace, Forgiveness, Pornography, Intimacy
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Henry Cloud

Caller Questions:

  1. How and when are you sure that you love someone you are dating?
  2. My husband is using coke and hallucinating.
  3. When does grace become enabling for my husband?
  4. I have unforgiveness when I see my ex-husband at church; how can I get past him leaving me?
  5. If I still feel hurt by the person who offended me, have I really forgiven her?
  6. What steps can I take to be more interested in sex with my husband? He used to watch porn.

Suggested Resources:
Download the Tip Sheet – Six Steps for Effective Confrontation
Clara’s Wisdom Travel Mug  (sayings from Steve’s mom mentioned on this show)
How To Get a Date Worth Keeping  (option for Boundaries in Dating)
You Can Do This  (option for God Will Make a Way)
How To Have That Difficult Conversation  (newer version of Boundaries Face to Face)
Every Man’s Battle

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New Life Live: February 5, 2016

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From the Archives of New Life Live, This Show Originally Aired January 14, 2004

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Topics: Alcoholics, Dating, Abandonment Issues, Parent Issues, Affairs, Pregnancy, Ponography
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Henry Cloud

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I handle finding out my husband has been secretly drinking for 2yrs and now wants to move to Las Vegas and play poker?
  2. How can I be a good Christian and be with a man without giving too much sexually?
  3. My dad spends days with my mom and nights with a different woman; how involved should my young kids and I be with them?
  4. I am afraid that if I have my baby against my boyfriend’s will, he will leave.
  5. My desire to remain celebate before marriage has led to X-rated websites. How do I stop looking?

Suggested Resources:
How To Have That Difficult Conversation  (newer version of Face to Face Boundaries)
The God of Second Chances
Every Man’s Battle

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New Life Live: December 16, 2015

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Topics: Sexual Integrity, Marriage, Emotionally Abusive, Adult Children, Confrontation, Anxiety
Hosts: Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard with Larry Sonnenburg

Caller Questions:

  1. I loved the Women In the Battle Workshop; how do we proceed now that my husband has gone to Every Man’s Battle?
  2. How do I hold on to an emotionally abusive marriage?
  3. My adult daughters do not want me in their lives; how do I deal with the hurt?
  4. What steps should I take to get a handle on my anxiety from losing my job and being in debt?

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
Rescued
The Emotionally Destructive Marriage
Fear and Anxiety CD

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New Life Live: September 23, 2015

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Topics: Asperger’s Syndrome, Depression, Grief, Anxiety, Love Addiction
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer
Guest Host:  Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

  1. I have no social drive since I have Asperger’s; how do I start an Every Man’s Battle group?
  2. How do I get help for my grief and depression since losing my husband to cancer last month?
  3. What is the right help to manage long-term anxiety?
  4. How can I lovingly guide my stepdaughter who has a pattern of divorce and affairs?

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
A Grief Observed
NIV Spiritual Renewal Study Bible
Twelve Laws of Life Recovery
Life Recovery Bible

This is the Marriage Solution Workshop testimony that was read on the radio today:

Before coming to this workshop, my life felt stuck. I couldn’t get moving forward. Either because I felt justified or hurt. But my life was more “feel sorry” than living.

This weekend has brought such a light!! I have had 8 years of counseling and in less than 3 days I have felt more movement and hope. I am so grateful for everything this workshop has been. I am leaving with so much hope and love, and less baggage. – Kim

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