New Life Live: February 5, 2016

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From the Archives of New Life Live, This Show Originally Aired January 14, 2004

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Topics: Alcoholics, Dating, Abandonment Issues, Parent Issues, Affairs, Pregnancy, Ponography
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Henry Cloud

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I handle finding out my husband has been secretly drinking for 2yrs and now wants to move to Las Vegas and play poker?
  2. How can I be a good Christian and be with a man without giving too much sexually?
  3. My dad spends days with my mom and nights with a different woman; how involved should my young kids and I be with them?
  4. I am afraid that if I have my baby against my boyfriend’s will, he will leave.
  5. My desire to remain celebate before marriage has led to X-rated websites. How do I stop looking?

Suggested Resources:
How To Have That Difficult Conversation  (newer version of Face to Face Boundaries)
The God of Second Chances
Every Man’s Battle

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New Life Live: December 16, 2015

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Topics: Sexual Integrity, Marriage, Emotionally Abusive, Adult Children, Confrontation, Anxiety
Hosts: Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard with Larry Sonnenburg

Caller Questions:

  1. I loved the Women In the Battle Workshop; how do we proceed now that my husband has gone to Every Man’s Battle?
  2. How do I hold on to an emotionally abusive marriage?
  3. My adult daughters do not want me in their lives; how do I deal with the hurt?
  4. What steps should I take to get a handle on my anxiety from losing my job and being in debt?

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
Rescued
The Emotionally Destructive Marriage
Fear and Anxiety CD

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New Life Live: September 23, 2015

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Topics: Asperger’s Syndrome, Depression, Grief, Anxiety, Love Addiction
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer
Guest Host:  Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

  1. I have no social drive since I have Asperger’s; how do I start an Every Man’s Battle group?
  2. How do I get help for my grief and depression since losing my husband to cancer last month?
  3. What is the right help to manage long-term anxiety?
  4. How can I lovingly guide my stepdaughter who has a pattern of divorce and affairs?

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
A Grief Observed
NIV Spiritual Renewal Study Bible
Twelve Laws of Life Recovery
Life Recovery Bible

This is the Marriage Solution Workshop testimony that was read on the radio today:

Before coming to this workshop, my life felt stuck. I couldn’t get moving forward. Either because I felt justified or hurt. But my life was more “feel sorry” than living.

This weekend has brought such a light!! I have had 8 years of counseling and in less than 3 days I have felt more movement and hope. I am so grateful for everything this workshop has been. I am leaving with so much hope and love, and less baggage. – Kim

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New Life Live: September 3, 2015

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Topics: Marriage, Abandonment, Betrayal, Sexual Abuse, Sexual Intimacy, Pornography, Controllers
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Sheri Keffer

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband of 35yrs is off doing his own thing; what do I do?
  2. How do I deal with the betrayal of my husband leaving our family 7mos ago?
  3. I grew up thinking it was normal to be fondled; how do I heal?
  4. There has been no sex in my marriage for 10mos, and I am using pornography; now what?
  5. My husband says he left because I am controlling but still calls and comes around; how do I save the marriage?

Suggested Resources:
Necessary Endings   (not available from New Life)
Healing Is a Choice
Life Recovery Bible
How We Love
Every Man’s Battle
Worthy of Her Trust

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New Life Live: August 28, 2015

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Topics: Divorce, Adult Children, Reconnection, Fear, Anger, Sexual Addiction
Hosts: Dr. Sheri Keffer, Milan Yerkovich with Larry Sonnenburg

Caller Questions:

  1. Was it a sin to divorce my husband because of his drug addiction?
  2. My pregnant daughter is angry because I asked her if she is keeping her baby; how do I fix things?
  3. I feel like the family scapegoat; how can I get past my fear and anger?
  4. Can you clarify in Every Man’s Battle why it says for the wife to increase sex with her husband while he is in recovery?

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
How To Have That Difficult Conversation
Changes That Heal
Every Man’s Battle

This is the Every Man’s Battle testimony that was read on the radio today:

I was skeptical of this workshop when I first came. I fell under the camp of “my wife made me go.” I am so very glad that I did. The fellowship with other men having the same struggles was unbelievable. Understanding the brain and the chemistry of what this does was powerful. Understanding tools and decision making points so powerful. Talking and confessing with other men was so powerful. I truly feel that this could be a turning point for my relationship with my wife and my God. New Life is doing a wonderful work for the kingdom. Thank you! – Chris

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New Life Live: July 31, 2015

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Topics: Grief, Submission, Boundaries, Autism, Addiction Recovery
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Milan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband died 16yrs ago; why do I miss him more now than when he died?
  2. What is God’s intent for submission in marriage according to Ephesians 5:23?
  3. How do I set boundaries with my autistic 15yo son so I can have me time?
  4. Sharing is new for me; is Every Man’s Battle a truly safe place?

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Is This The One
How To Find a Date Worth Keeping
Boundaries

This is the Every Man’s Battle Workshop testimony Steve read on the radio today:

To be honest coming here I wasn’t sure if I wanted to stay married. I have sinned and been caught before so I know the tough road of rebuilding trust and a relationship. What I lacked before was tools and community to sustain my efforts. I feel EMB has prepared me for that “battle” and now I know that not only can I do this but I MUST do this. I have come to the absolute decision that I do want to stay married. I do want to fight Satan for my wife’s love, my children’s respect, and my redemption. – Jim

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New Life Live: July 28, 2015

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Topics: Sexual Integrity, Christian Walk, Divorce, Abandonment, Marriage, Pornography
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard and Jason Martinkus, presenter at the Every Man’s Battle Workshops

Caller Questions:

  1. What do we do when Every Man’s Battle is not available locally?
  2. Why are so many men broken and declining as a gender?
  3. I have been through 2 divorces; how do I recover from my fear of abandonment?
  4. My wife left; what are my next moves as I wait to see if she will come back?

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Battle
Worthy of Her Trust
How We Love
7 Minute Marriage Solution

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New Life Live: March 24, 2015

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Topics: HomosexualityMarriageNarcissistsMolestationSexual IntegrityAffairs 
Hosts: Steve Arterburn  and Guest Hosts Jason and Shelley Martinkus, Presenters at Every Man’s Battle Workshop

Caller Questions:

  1. Do you think 2 Samuel 1:26 about David loving Jonathan is the beginning of homosexuality? 
  2. How should I respond to my husband when he says no to renewing our vows? 
  3. Is it OK to leave my narcissist husband? 
  4. How can I deal with my son-in-law whose molestation charge is ripping apart our family? 
  5. My separated husband has had ten affairs; when is it time to give up? 

Suggested Resources:
Every Young Woman’s Battle
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable
The Emotionally Destructive Relationship
Worthy of Her Trust

 

This is the Every Man’s Battle testimony Steve read on the radio today:

My sin and addiction were so commonplace that I thought it would be with me until the end of my life. Breaking this cycle and seeing the power of Jesus breaking me free has been worth every moment spent here. – Ryan

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New Life Live: January 15, 2015

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Topics: AffairsForgivenessMarriageSexual AddictionSexual IntegrityNarcissistsDating 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Jill HubbardMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. We both have had affairs, but my wife is having a harder time with forgiveness. 
  2. My husband just went to Every Man’s Battle Weekend, and I am so grateful. 
  3. I have 18 kids; what advice can you give me for my marriage that is at rock bottom? 
  4. Is my husband’s sexual addiction because of his narcissism? 
  5. Why do I hurt so much after breaking up from my unequally yoked boyfriend? 

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
How We Love
Healing Is A Choice
Book of Life Recovery
Life Recovery Bible

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New Life Live: October 2, 2014

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Topics: PornographyChildhood IssuesGetting UnstuckDatingSexual Integrity 
Hosts: Dr. Sheri KefferMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband still struggles with porn after reading Every Man’s Battle; what should I do?
  2. I feel like there is a 7yo crying girl inside of me; how can I get unstuck from past trauma? 
  3. Is it acceptable to get married in the eyes of God without registering with the government? 
  4. My ex-boyfriend cheated on me with a married woman; should I warn her about him? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Is This The One
Healing Is a Choice

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