New Life Live: April 11, 2016

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Topics: Pornography, Marriage, Sexual Addiction, Anger, Dating
Hosts: Steve Arterburn and Guest Hosts Jason Martinkus and Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

  1. What is my next step after finding pornography on my husband’s email?
  2. My wife wants a divorce because I can’t handle my anger; how do I control my outbursts?
  3. I followed the dating advice 11yrs ago from New Life Live and I am so glad!

Suggested Resources:
Rescued
Life Recovery Bible
Is This The One

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New Life Live: February 29, 2016

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Topics: Sex Addiction, Pornography, Affairs, Difficult Conversations, Adult Children, Dating
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Milan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband is a recovering sex addict and is receiving sexual junk mail; how do I approach him?
  2. How can my fiancé and I move forward after four kids and both of us cheating?
  3. Should I talk to my daughter about how poorly her husband treats her and the kids–or should I keep quiet?
  4. I am reading How To Get a Date Worth Keeping; how do I know if a guy is playing games or really likes me?

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
Every Man’s Bible
The Emotionally Destructive Marriage
Is This The One

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New Life Live: February 11, 2016

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Topics: Weight Loss, EMDR, Christian Walk, Career, Making Decisions, Tithing, Sexual Addiction
Hosts: Steve Arterburn
Guest Hosts: Jason Martinkus and Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

  1. I attended Lose It for Life and had a great experience!
  2. What is EMDR and what does it treat?
  3. Should I attend my nephew’s wedding if they first lived together?
  4. I have a great employee who is unhappy in this line of work; am I enabling her by keeping her employed?
  5. How do I know if I am in God’s will in deciding to move to another state?
  6. Should I tithe on child support?
  7. My husband is a sex addict; is it OK to wait until after we refinance to give him an ultimatum?

Suggested Resources:
Life Recovery Bible
Toxic Faith
You Can Do This
NIV Spiritual Renewal Bible
Worthy of Her Trust
Healing Is a Choice

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New Life Live: February 4, 2016

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Topics: Adult Children, Estrangement, Church Life, Divorce, Parenting, Sexual Integrity, Connection,
Hosts: Steve Arterburn
Guest Hosts: Jason Martinkus and Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

  1. My daughter ran off with a married man, and I do not know where she is.
  2. I attend a megachurch and they are unresponsive to my attempts to get connected; what can I do?
  3. How do I respond to my small kids telling me they have a new daddy?
  4. My husband is now in therapy after porn and prostitutes; should I leave him anyway?
  5. How do I get closer to my adult daughter who loves my money and babysitting but not my advice?

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Healing Is a Choice
Worthy of Her Trust
How To Have That Difficult Conversation

Here is the Women in the Battle workshop testimony that was read on the radio today:

Before attending Women in the Battle, I felt like I was in a slow downward spiral to my death. I felt like I was dying from the inside out. This weekend has been the kick start to me saying goodbye to the old me, my old marriage, and dreams. I can now say hello to a new life with hope and power to ask what I need now and that is ok! This weekend saved my life (physically, emotionally, and spiritually.) – Meredith

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New Life Live: January 25, 2016

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Topics: Adult Children, Disclosure, Fears, Emotional Affairs
Host: Steve Arterburn
Guest Hosts: Jason Martinkus and Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

  1. Should I help pay for the criminal defense of my son-in-law?
  2. When should I tell my adult kids about my past moral failure and 15yrs of recovery?
  3. How can I get past my paralyzing fear of traveling?
  4. My wife thinks I am insecure because I do not want her texting other men; how should I respond?

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Every Man’s Bible
Worthy of Her Trust

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How Can He Really Love Me?

When a woman is dealing with a husband who has lied to her about sexual integrity issues, she is devastated. When she hears him say how much he still loves her, sometimes she just can’t believe it. Jason Martinkus, leader of our Every Man’s Battle Workshop, gives his view as a man in recovery. Click here to watch the video from tv.newlife.com.

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The Every Man’s Battle Workshop is this weekend in Denver, CO. If you know someone who needs to attend, call our Resource Center at 800-639-5433 for more information.

New Life Live: September 17, 2015

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Topics: Dating, Christian Walk, Affairs, Trust, Grief
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich and Guest Host Jason Martinkus

Caller Questions:

  1. Is it considered fornication if my roommate is someone I used to have sex with?
  2. My husband admitted to having an affair of 17yrs; how do I make him talk?
  3. Can you tell me more about having an adult voice?
  4. Why am I so emotional after a bad break-up with my fiancée?

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
How We Love
Healing Is a Choice

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New Life Live: September 7, 2015

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Topics: Grief, Borderline Personality Disorder, Alcoholics, Dementia, Aging Parents, Dating
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich and Guest Host Jason Martinkus

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I move on after breaking up with a borderline guy?
  2. Comment: Thank you for the advice that helped my marriage to an alcoholic.
  3. How should I handle possible dementia in my mom and stepdad?
  4. My boyfriend wants to be exclusive, but he is helping another woman.

Suggested Resources:
Twelve Gifts of Life Recovery
Life Recovery Bible
Worthy of Her Trust

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New Life Live: August 31, 2015

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Topics: Marriage, Affairs, Dating, Pornography, Sexual Integrity
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Milan Yerkovich and Guest Host Jason Martinkus

Caller Questions:

  1. I was inattentive to my wife due to money issues, and now she has found someone else.
  2. Is there a way to know if I am hearing God’s voice?
  3. How do I confront my boyfriend about his pornography addiction?
  4. What steps can I take to get my husband to Every Man’s Battle?

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
NIV Spiritual Renewal Study Bible
Every Man’s Battle

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What Causes Sex Addiction?

Lisa is wondering what causes sexual addiction. She wrote in to describe what’s been going on in her marriage, but before they answer, Dr. Dave Stoop and Jason Martinkus want to examine the question she’s asking. Today, they’ll talk about what may really be going on in Lisa’s marriage. Watch the video.

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