New Life Live: March 20, 2015

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Topics: Sexual AddictionPhysical AbuseSexual AbuseParentingDatingSexual Integrity
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband is recovering from porn addiction, and I hit him during a heated argument.
  2. How do I help my sister whose 13yo son acted inappropriately with his 7yo sister? 
  3. I am sad and afraid for a life alone because I got an STD from my boyfriend; do you have any advice? 
  4. Does it make sense that my husband wants me to move out but stay close by because he is responsible for me? 
  5. I found out my husband of 6mos is going to massage parlors and hiring prostitutes and it breaks my heart. 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Life Recovery Bible
Healing Is a Choice

This is the Healing Is A Choice testimony Steve read on the radio today:

Before coming to this weekend I was in a dark place that felt scary, alone, and helpless. I was living in bondage – trapped by sin and shame that felt too big and unforgivable for me to bring to God. I felt small, invisible, and insignificant in the eyes of others. This weekend has been an emotional breakthrough that God can love even me. That he can use ordinary people that are broken and damaged to do great works in his name. It has given me hope when I feel I had none. It has been the toughest, most emotionally exhausting stripped raw experience I have ever had but by far the most freeing. I leave here with a new self image of who I am. Not by “man’s standard“, not by the world’s view, but as who Christ has made me and sees me to be. That with a willing attitude and of hard work I can change my life and open the door for Christ to use me for His glory. – Daminica

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New Life Live: January 29, 2015

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Topics: Drug AddictionAbandonmentAngerMarriageAdult ChildrenPornography, Sexual Addiction 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. As a recovering drug addict, is it OK to take pain medication? 
  2. How do I know if a counselor is trained in EMDR? 
  3. I am pregnant with our first child; how do I deal with the anger and pain of my husband leaving me? 
  4. What encouragement can I give to my 24yo son being sent to jail for one night for a DUI? 
  5. My husband will be getting help for his porn addiction; what do I do until then? 

Suggested Resources:
Life Recovery Bible
Book of Life Recovery
Healing Is a Choice
Worthy of Her Trust

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New Life Live: June 17, 2014

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Topics: AddictionsParentingMarriageSeparationForgivenessTrust
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. How can I have more compassion for my husband struggling with alcohol, marijuana and porn addiction? 
  2. What is the balance between discipline and self-worth for my anxious 14yo daughter? 
  3. My husband ruined my credit and threatens suicide to hurt me; is it healthy to live with him? 
  4. How can I forgive and trust God again after a huge business deal went bad? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Life Recovery Bible
How We Love Our Kids
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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New Life Live: August 22, 2012

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Topics: MarriageAdult ChildrenPornographyAddictionsAffairs,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Sheri Denham
Caller Questions:

  1. Is there any hope for my husband who moved out and took all our money? 
  2. I can’t believe I am not invited to my daughter’s wedding. How can I connect? 
  3. My husband blames his porn addiction on me. 
  4. Why would my adult kids reject me and not let me see my grandchildren? 
  5. My husband stopped his affair; how do I get him to start communicating? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is A Choice
Every Man’s Battle

Link to New Life Live: August 22, 2012

New Life Live: April 19, 2012

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Topics: PornographyMarriageSelf Worth And ConfidenceMother Issues,
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Sheri DenhamMilan Yerkovich
Caller Questions:

  1. How can I turn my prophetic gift into a ministry? 
  2. I lost my family due to my porn addiction; can you help me stop? 
  3. When my husband is kind to me, I feel I don’t deserve it. 
  4. Should we accept my 25yo niece’s boyfriend who is 38yo with 3 kids? 
  5. How can I improve my chaotic brain and stop losing track of time? 
  6. My mother is manipulative and I don’t know how to respond to her. 

Suggested Resources:

Is This The One
How We Love
Every Man’s Battle

New Life Live: December 23, 2011

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Topics: Affairs And InfidelityWeight LossAlcoholismBoundariesPornography
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions:

  1. After my wife’s affair, we have no connection. Should we separate? 
  2. I have a weight issue, and I feel vulnerable if I lose weight. 
  3. I am in and out of alcohol rehab, and I am a Christian. How can I quit? 
  4. My wife has been disconnected since our honeymoon 6 months ago. 
  5. What boundaries can I set for my 34yo lying brother with a porn addiction? 

Suggested Resources:
Walking Into Walls
Lose It for Life
Life Recovery Bible
Forgiving Our Parents Forgiving Ourselves

Link to New Life Live: December 23, 2011

New Life Live: August 24, 2011

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Topics: Marriage, Pornography, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Denham, Milan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:
1. How can I change feeling like my husband is all bad?
2. I found my husband’s Viagra; how can I confront his porn addiction?
3. Can you clarify Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, how to connect your head and your heart?

Suggested Resources:
Walking Into Walls
Changes That Heal
How We Love

New Life Live: April 28, 2011

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Hosts:
Steve Arterburn, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Dr. Sheri Denham

Discussion Topics:
Pornography, evangelism, creating boundaries, divorce.

Caller Questions:
1. I had a brain scan, but how do I stop my porn addiction?
2. I work in a medical lock-down; how do you discern demon possession?
3. My mom is opening accounts in my name; should I sue?
4. I’m separated and it’s unfair I can’t remarry if I get divorced!

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Battle
Life Recovery Bible
Healing Is a Choice
Secrets Women Keep
How We Love