Steve Arterburn: My Apology to all Women

In case you missed this on our new TV channel here’s your chance to see this very touching and tender message from Steve Arterburn. Steve says: ” Toward the end of the show about sex trauma I recorded with Sheri Keffer, I really felt compelled to say something important to all the women watching. It came straight from the heart. And when the show was over, I was overcome with emotion. I had no idea the cameras were still rolling and I learned a lot about myself that day.” Click on the image to watch.

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New Life Live: October 24, 2013

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Topics: BoundariesFriendshipsMarriageSexual IntegrityForgivenessParentingSexual Abuse
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Henry CloudDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. How can I help my mentally ill best friend without breaking my boundaries? 
  2. I shared my impure thoughts with my wife, and she left me; how do I get her back? 
  3. The kids think I am unforgiving, but they don’t know all the sex partners their dad has had. 
  4. How do I deal with the family denial that my young daughters were sexually abused? 

Suggested Resources:
Boundaries
Healing Is a Choice
Raising Great Kids

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New Life Live: August 27, 2013

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Topics: ParentingAlcohol AbuseBorderlineBoundariesMarriageIntimacy
Hosts: Dr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard with Larry Sonnenburg

Caller Questions:

  1. Should I kick out my 19yo son who drinks and drives? 
  2. My sister may be borderline; how do I set boundaries if she moves in with me? 
  3. After 4-5 counselors, my husband hasn’t changed and it’s now affecting our daughter. 
  4. As a newlywed, is it normal for my husband to want sex 2-3 times a day? 

Suggested Resources:
Book of Life Recovery
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Just Us

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New Life Live: August 12, 2013

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Topics: BoundariesSex AddictMarriageChristian WalkDatingControllerIntimacy
Hosts: Steve ArterburnMilan Yerkovich, Guest Host Marilyn Meberg

Caller Questions:

  1. What boundaries do you suggest for a love addict married to a sex addict? 
  2. How can I help a friend whose husband tells her that God doesn’t love her? 
  3. My fiancée said I am controlling, and then she left. 
  4. Why would our sex life go from healthy to none? 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
How We Love
Is This The One

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New Life Live: August 2, 2013

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Topics: DatingForgivenessVerbal AbuseMarriageSexual IntegrityAngerFearPleaserAvoider
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. Comment: The New Life Marriage Weekend was beyond good! 
  2. I loved “Is This The One.” How do I get a date? 
  3. Why did I dream that I hate my mom? 
  4. Should I endure my husband’s verbal abuse and stay married? 
  5. My husband needs to talk to our 20-something sons about their sexual integrity; should I push him? 
  6. How do I forgive myself for our separation? 
  7. I married an older man to care for my child, and now he wants sex. 
  8. How do I overcome the fear of someone getting angry with me? 
  9. Can a pleaser and an avoider be friends? 

Suggested Resources:
How To Get a Date Worth Keeping
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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New Life Live: June 18, 2013

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Topics: DatingForgivenessAffairsMarriageAdult ChildrenBoundaries
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Sheri DenhamMilan Yerkovich
Caller Questions:

  1. How do I heal from a past relationship? 
  2. I think my husband had sex with his cousin; should I call her to confirm? 
  3. My 13yo granddaughter lives with us, but she would like to be with her addict mom. 
  4. My husband says he is only “honoring” our pastor’s wife through their calls and money gifts. 
  5. I fell in love with a married man by accident; is it OK to be his friend? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
7 Minute Marriage Solution
How We Love Our Kids

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New Life Live: May 29, 2013

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Topics: ParentingAbortionAlcoholicsAffairsMarriageBoundaries
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Sheri Denham, Guest Host Marilyn Meberg
Caller Questions:

  1. At what age do you disclose to your kids that they are from donor eggs? 
  2. Why do I have a nightmare relationship and guilt since I had an abortion? 
  3. My husband drinks, had a same-sex affair, and is now distancing from me. 
  4. What boundaries can I place for a husband who does not want to join a church? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is A Choice
Every Man’s Marriage

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New Life Live: May 17, 2013

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Topics: DatingAdult ChildrenSeparationAlcoholicsSinglesMarriageBoundaries
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. John TownsendDr. Dave Stoop
Caller Questions:

  1. I have a question about the 10-date challenge in “Is This The One.” 
  2. My 34yo son was absent for 4yrs and now he is doing it again; what can we do? 
  3. Do I have a right to separate from my alcoholic husband? 
  4. As the leader of the house; can I get rid of my wife’s witchcraft books? 
  5. How can I find emotional healing and love as a single with a sex addiction? 
  6. Is it a red flag my date revealed she had an affair during her marriage? 
  7. I kicked out my 38yo son from my home; is that fair to his kids? 
  8. Is oral sex biblically wrong in marriage? 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Life Recovery Bible
How To Have That Difficult Conversation
Changes That Heal
Every Man’s Battle

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New Life Live: April 16, 2013

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Topics: DatingBorderline Personality DisorderAffairsAdult ChildrenSexual Integrity
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. John TownsendDr. Dave Stoop
Caller Questions:

  1. I am engaged to a 35yo borderline, how can I support her difficulties? 
  2. Comment: You told a caller to spy on his wife on Facebook and I disagree. 
  3. How do we handle my 23yo son screaming profanities since he moved back home? 
  4. After dating a non-Christian for 4yrs, does God want me to move on? 
  5. Comment: My first husband had a whole other life and I wish I had snooped on him! 
  6. I am a sex addict in recovery; is it normal to have sexual dreams? 

Suggested Resources:
Boundaries in Marriage
Is This The One
How We Love
Book of Life Recovery

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New Life Live: March 29, 2013

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Topics: AffairsPassive/aggressiveMarriageDatingIntimacy
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Sheri DenhamMilan Yerkovich
Caller Questions:

  1. How can I show my wife I love her after I had an affair with her friend? 
  2. My husband is passive/aggressive and I don’t know how to disconnect from him. 
  3. Is it wrong that my girlfriend can’t accept me having female friends? 
  4. I am reading Every Man’s Battle; do I have a problem if I want more sex than my wife? 

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
Walking Into Walls
How We Love

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