New Life Live: March 30, 2015

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Topics: PornographyMarriageBoundariesCodependencyAnger 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. My husband thinks his porn use is no big deal and dismisses my feelings; what do I do now? 
  2. How do I convince my friend to not give up on his rocky marriage? 
  3. Why do I have anger and resentment when I have to say no? 

Suggested Resources:
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Worthy of Her Trust
Just Us
Healing Is a Choice

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New Life Live: March 27, 2015

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Topics: AlcoholicsGriefAffairsWeight LossSexual Abuse 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Jill HubbardMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. Comment: Praise God for your addiction advice 3yrs ago! 
  2. How do I comfort a friend whose son is dying of cancer? 
  3. Why was my friend’s husband protective of his affair and not his wife? 
  4. What steps do I take to rid myself of the weight I gained after being raped by a minister 10yrs ago?

Suggested Resources:
Life Recovery Bible
Worthy of Her Trust
Healing Is a Choice

This is the Every Man’s Battle testimony Steve read on the radio today:

I was hoping for a magic pill. This workshop was more than a magic pill. It made me realize that my problem was deeper than I thought. I have problems I never considered, and I am not alone. EMB has given me tools and hope for recovery, and helped me to understand and see why I am the way that I am. Thank you EMB! - Paul

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New Life Live: March 26, 2015

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Topics: Christian WalkFitnessMarriageWeight LossSleep 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnMilan Yerkovich and Guest Host Michelle Spadafora, Founder of Faithful Workouts

Caller Questions:

  1. How does faith fit into my fitness program? 
  2. I just got engaged and this will be the third marriage for each of us; how can we make this one stick? 
  3. My friends are always going on fad diets; how can I advise them? 
  4. How can you sleep at night? 
  5. Am I distracting myself from spiritual things when I exercise? 
  6. What are healthy snack ideas while I am commuting? 

Suggested Resources:
Lose It for Life
This Is The One
Total Body Workout
Show Your Food Who’s Boss

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New Life Live: March 25, 2015

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Topics: EMDRSexual IntegrityChildhood AbuseParenting 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. John TownsendDr. Sheri Keffer

Caller Questions:

  1. Thanks for recommending EMDR! It has made a huge difference the past 2yrs. 
  2. My husband left after I found out that he has other phones and secretly got tested for an STD; how do I stop obsessing over the lies? 
  3. How do we respond to my in-laws who say it’s not biblical that my wife is getting EMDR treatment? 
  4. What can I do about my 7yo son who is angry, lies, and bullies other kids? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Boundaries in Marriage
Raising Great Kids
How We Love Our Kids

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This is the Healing Is A Choice Workshop testimony Steve read on the show today:

Before coming to this weekend, my life was isolated, sad, lonely, full of shame and self-anger.   Helpless- I felt I had worked so hard for so long and still was a mess. Felt I would always be broken, no matter what I did or how hard I worked. This weekend has been freeing. It gave me the safe place to finally say – outloud , to other humans -the shame that has kept me held captive. It’s given me new lifetime friends. I leave here with courage to continue on my healing path and new tools to help make the journey. I have a renewed belief that I can be who God intended me to be. I will heal with God’s help. To anyone considering attending this event, I’d say: Come! Don’t let anything or anyone keep you from this healing workshop. - Lori


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New Life Live: March 24, 2015

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Topics: HomosexualityMarriageNarcissistsMolestationSexual IntegrityAffairs 
Hosts: Steve Arterburn  and Guest Hosts Jason and Shelley Martinkus, Presenters at Every Man’s Battle Workshop

Caller Questions:

  1. Do you think 2 Samuel 1:26 about David loving Jonathan is the beginning of homosexuality? 
  2. How should I respond to my husband when he says no to renewing our vows? 
  3. Is it OK to leave my narcissist husband? 
  4. How can I deal with my son-in-law whose molestation charge is ripping apart our family? 
  5. My separated husband has had ten affairs; when is it time to give up? 

Suggested Resources:
Every Young Woman’s Battle
Healing Is a Choice
Forgiving the Unforgivable
The Emotionally Destructive Relationship
Worthy of Her Trust

 

This is the Every Man’s Battle testimony Steve read on the radio today:

My sin and addiction were so commonplace that I thought it would be with me until the end of my life. Breaking this cycle and seeing the power of Jesus breaking me free has been worth every moment spent here. - Ryan

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New Life Live: March 23, 2015

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Topics: DepressionHabitsPhysical AbusePornographyDatingDifficult Conversations 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Jill HubbardMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. Medication helped my depression, but how do I let go of bad habits used to cope? 
  2. How do I stop from getting pulled back into my abusive marriage? 
  3. After 5mos of marriage, my husband and I are both into porn; what can I do for me? 
  4. How do I ask my live-in boyfriend to move out without hurting him? 

Suggested Resources:
Healing Is a Choice
Every Woman’s Battle
How We Love

This is the Marriage Solution Workshop testimony Steve read on the radio today:

The last 4 years my husband’s temper, anger, rage, and emotional abuse had taken a toll on our marriage and our children. We’d recently been separated and he moved back home a month ago. This workshop has helped us identify the root problems that were preventing us from moving forward in our journey to find healing and restoration. This workshop experience is worth your time, money, and commitment. The New Life staff is warm, welcoming, and have a heart for restoration ministry. – Rachel

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New Life Live: March 19, 2015

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Topics: ParentingForgivenessSexual IntegrityMarriageDisclosure 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave Stoop

Caller Questions:

  1. I hate my 17yo daughter; how do I change my attitude? 
  2. When my husband gets out of jail, how can he stop fantasizing about other women? 
  3. Why can’t I be completely honest with my wife? 
  4. I have questioned my love for my wife for years; what should I do? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love Our Kids
Every Man’s Bible
How We Love

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New Life Live: March 18, 2015

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Topics: MarriageIntimacyDepressionGetting Unstuck 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. John TownsendDr. Sheri Keffer

Caller Questions:

  1. I use John’s book “How People Grow” in my ministry for the homeless. 
  2. My wife says I ignore her; what can I do to save our marriage? 
  3. I take my depression out on my husband; how can I get unstuck? 
  4. Should I marry the woman I have known for 27yrs who gave me a child? 

Suggested Resources:
Life Recovery Bible
Book of Life Recovery
Healing Is a Choice
Worthy of Her Trust

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This is the Marriage Solution Workshop testimony Steve read on the radio today:

Before this weekend, I was in bad and unsure place. My wife and I were considering a divorce, but wanted very much to work it out. This weekend has been great for me and my wife. We learned tools that we can use not only with ourselves, but with our children, and learned how our mistakes affect them. I am leaving the weekend determined to work it out with my wife and now have some tools to do so. - Mike

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New Life Live: March 17, 2015

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Topics: IrelandNarcissistsAddictionsBoundariesParentingPassive-AggressiveForgivenessAdult Children 
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Dave StoopDr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. Interview with Christine, a friend of New Life who lives in Ireland. 
  2. Am I the manipulative narcissist my wife thinks I am? 
  3. I left the house because our 25yo addict son was affecting my recovery; how can my wife and I resolve this? 
  4. Can passive-aggressive tendencies show up as early as 5yrs old? 
  5. What is the difference between forgiveness and trust in family situations? 
  6. Interview with Dermot, the tour guide for our upcoming trip to Ireland. 

Suggested Resources:
7 Minute Marriage Solution
How We Love
How We Love Our Kids
Forgiving the Unforgivable
Forgiving Our Fathers and Mothers

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New Life Live: March 16, 2015

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Topics: AvoidersMarriageDatingParentingDatingExpectations, Asperger’s Syndrome
Hosts: Steve ArterburnDr. Jill HubbardMilan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. How do I connect with my avoider husband who didn’t even tell me about his cancer? 
  2. I broke up with a guy with Asperger’s who is now being rude; should I respond? 
  3. What can I do for my adopted 15yo daughter who flip-flopped into challenging behavior and cult activity? 
  4. Do I push my girlfriend away by having so many expectations? 

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
7 Minute Marriage Solution
Secrets Young Women Keep  (not available from New Life)
How We Love Our Kids
Is This The One

This is the Healing Is A Choice testimony Steve read on the radio today:

Because of the spiritual foundation of this counseling I accomplished more in one weekend that I have in months of traditional counseling. I now have a strong support system of caring people who truly want only the best for me. With Jesus beside me there is no way I can fail. Awesome. - Dottie

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