New Life Live: July 28, 2016

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Topics: Anger, Forgiveness, Sexual Intimacy, Marriage, Affairs, Avoider, Sexual Addiction
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer

Caller Questions:

  1. I still have lots of anger after being accused of having an affair when I got raped.
  2. We have not had sex for 5yrs because my husband doesn’t like my hair or my weight; what is wrong with this picture?
  3. My avoider husband had an affair; how do I move forward?
  4. How do I respond to a friend who accused me of cheating on him because I was intimate with someone else?

Suggested Resources:
Secrets Women Keep
Healing Is a Choice
Is This The One
Every Woman’s Battle

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New Life Live: July 22, 2016

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From the Archives of New Life Live, This Show Originally Aired on June 8, 2004

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Topics: Anger, Affairs, Weight Loss, Fear, Boundaries
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend

Caller Questions:

  1. How can I release my anger over my husband having an affair?
  2. I need help with my obesity or I am going to die.
  3. Why do I seem happy to others, but inside I am fearful and put up walls?
  4. When I feel selfish, I pray for the callers and it takes the focus off of me.
  5. Should I set boundaries with my husband even though he feels bad about having another affair?

Suggested Resources:
You Can Do This  (option for God Will make a Way)
Lose It for Life
Safe People  (option for How People Grow)
Every Man’s Bible
Boundaries in Marriage
Every Man’s Battle

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New Life Live: July 21, 2016

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Topics: Alcohol, Affairs, Adult Children, Mental Illness, Panic Attacks, Divorce, In-laws
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. How do we get our 46yo alcoholic bipolar daughter to move out?
  2. I just found evidence of my husband’s phone affair and he says it is OK because he didn’t love me at the time.
  3. Will my 42yo mentally ill son be OK in prison after trying to strangle me?
  4. How can I help my 28yo son get help with his severe panic disorder?
  5. Should I drop my court case against my ex-husband to improve our relationship in dealing with the kids?
  6. How should I respond to my husband wanting to please his mom at the expense of my feelings?

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
Life Recovery Bible
Emotional Freedom Workbook

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New Life Live: July 19, 2016

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Topics: Anger, Boundaries, Pornography, Grief, Decisions, Affairs, Siblings
Hosts: Steve Arterburn and Guest Hosts Jason Martinkus and Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

  1. Are my husband’s anger issues a result of his porn addiction?
  2. As a young ministry leader, how do I set boundaries for those who come to me with emotional issues?
  3. My 23yo son gave me his old computer and I found porn on it; what should I do as a mom?
  4. How can I help my friend in her grief after her adult daughter suddenly died 3yrs ago?
  5. Should I take a job 5hrs away when I have two kids in their 20’s at home?
  6. How can I understand why my sister would have an affair with a married man for 12yrs?

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Worthy of Her Trust
NIV Spiritual Renewal Study Bible
Healing Is a Choice
Changing What Never Seems to Change CD

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New Life Live: July 18, 2016

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Topics: Boundaries, Affairs, Fears, Mother Issues, Forgiveness
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. What boundaries should I set for my husband who had an affair and says he loves me?
  2. I want to leave the guy I am living with; why do I fear being alone?
  3. How do accept the man my mom is in love with? He is much younger and in prison.
  4. My husband keeps draining my savings without paying it back; should I forgive him?

Suggested Resources:
Every Man’s Marriage
Healing is a Choice
Is This The One
Forgiving the Unforgivable

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New Life Live: July 14, 2016

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Topics: Sexual Integrity; Sexual Addiction; Dating, Shame, Gaslighting, Church Life, Forgiveness
Hosts: Steve Arterburn and Guest Hosts Jason Martinkus and Chris Williams

Caller Questions:

  1. I am in treatment for a sex offense; is there more I can do?
  2. Is my boyfriend gaslighting me by bringing up things in the past that always make me feel guilty?
  3. What should I do about my pastor’s word of knowledge that I was traumatized at 8yo?
  4. My husband went to jail for molesting my 14yo niece and I was blamed for it; how do I forgive myself and him?

Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
Is This The One
Healing Is a Choice

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New Life Live: July 13, 2016

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Topics: Alcohol, Separation, Sexual Integrity, Estrangement, Adult Children
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Milan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. Should I be in communication with my abusive and alcoholic husband while we are separated?
  2. My husband left because of my autoimmune illness; should I just stand on God’s Word for my marriage?
  3. My oldest daughter adopted her addict sister’s baby but will not let her sister into her life. How can I help?

Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Healing Is a Choice
Every Man’s Battle

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New Life Live: July 12, 2016

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Topics: Sexual Integrity, Lying, Brain Injury, Nightmares, Marijuana, Church Life, Avoiders
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Dave Stoop, Dr. Jill Hubbard

Caller Questions:

  1. Thanks for being on the air! You are a lifesaver to many!
  2. My husband is slipping and lying about it to his sexual integrity support group; what is my next step?
  3. I fell off of a cliff 2yrs ago; is there anything more I can do for my brain injury and nightmares?
  4. How can I motivate my three grown sons to stop smoking marijuana?
  5. As a pastor, what should I do about my daughter living with her boyfriend? She is the worship leader.
  6. My husband has been giving me the silent treatment the last two weeks and I do not know what to do.

Suggested Resources:
NIV Spiritual Renewal Study Bible
Rescued
Life Recovery Bible
Boundaries for Leaders
7 Minute Marriage Solution

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New Life Live: July 11, 2016

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Topics: Intimacy, Cult, Adult Children, PTSD, Sexual Abuse, Physical Abuse, Salvation
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Milan Yerkovich

Caller Questions:

  1. What is going on that my wife accidentally had orgasms during a pedicure and massage?
  2. What should we do to help our 22yo daughter who was lured into a cult?
  3. Do I have PTSD after sexual and physical abuse in my marriage? How do I handle the bad dreams?
  4. Have I committed the unpardonable sin?

Suggested Resources:
Every Woman’s Battle
Toxic Faith
Surviving Sexual Abuse CD

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New Life Live: July 8, 2016

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From the Archives of New Life Live, This Show Originally Aired December 7, 2004

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Topics: Anger, Siblings, Eating Disorders, Intimacy, Sexual Integrity, Divorce, Singles
Hosts: Steve Arterburn, Dr. John Townsend, Dr. Henry Cloud

Caller Questions:

  1. My brother-in-law rages around his kids; how can I help my sister?
  2. Is there a treatment center for men who are binge eating like my fiancé?
  3. I have been married for 10yrs and have never been in love with my husband.
  4. As a recovering sex addict, how do I maintain sexual integrity after my divorce is final?

Suggested Resources:
How to Have That Difficult Conversation   (current version of Boundaries Face to Face)
Lose It for Life
How to Get a Date Worth Keeping  (current option for Boundaries in Dating)

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