- Get Real.
Recognize that sexual temptation is unavoidable in our sex-obsessed culture. Erotic images on billboards, films, TV and a thousand other stimulants are bombarding you daily. Continue reading
‘Get Busy Living or Get Busy Dying’
(Andy, The Shawshank Redemption)
Spiritually, we are busy dying when we continue to feed our sexual addiction. You know that. You can easily testify up close and personal, that the nature of the flesh is to war against the things of the Spirit. Continue reading
Is your marriage a delight to you? How does it compare with, say, your career or your favorite hobby when it comes to charging your engines? These aren’t things many men think about often, are they? And even when we do, it’s tough to get past our own defense mechanisms in order to get accurate answers.
This being the case, I’ve got a more practical and concrete way for you to answer these questions. Over the next several days, keep your eye out for these particular things as they show up in your daily life:
‘ Does your wife’s face brighten when you enter the room?
‘ Do you greet and part with a kiss, or some other form of affection?
‘ Does she respond positively to your embrace?
‘ Does talking happen often and proceed easily between the two of you?
‘ When she’s sad, or when she’s been hurt, is it you that she seeks?
‘ Do you think about her when she’s not around? If so, what kind of thoughts?
Guys, the observations you make with regard to these questions will go a long way in helping you discern where your heart is at with your wife. If you find a passion for oneness and a passion for serving her, that’s fantastic! Keep up the good work.
However, if you find that the passion isn’t there, don’t blow it off. It’s not okay. You need to seek it, find it, and fan it into flame.