Spiritual growth is all about being transformed into the person God envisions you to be. Confessing your sin and shortcomings is a part of this process of transformation. Whenever you confess your sin and shortcomings’your anger, lust, addiction, selfishness’whatever it is’you can have full confidence that God will forgive you, give you the power to change, and transform your life.
The apostle Paul wrote, ‘Long ago, even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes’ (Ephesians 1:4). God desires to make you holy’that is, to form his character in you. Looking through the eyes of love, he already sees you as you will look when his work is done. Spiritual renewal is the process of correcting your life to match what God envisions it to be. The Bible tells us God’s discipline is always right and good because it means we will share in his holiness. It is God’s will for you to be made holy.
When you ask God to develop such holiness in you, he eagerly responds to your request. The apostle John wrote, ‘And we can be confident that he will listen to us whenever we ask him for anything in line with his will. And if we know he is listening when we make our requests, we can be sure that he will give us what we ask for’ (1 John 5:14-15).
If you truly desire to be the person God created you to be, then you must learn to be truthful and turn away from lying. Lying can easily become a way of life. You lie to your kids to keep them from nagging. You lie to your boss to make yourself look good. You can even lie to yourself.
Are you trying to cover up your problems and pretend they don’t exist’including your problem with lying? Like it or not, you must face reality. When you do, you will see the pain caused by your lies. You’ll see how they’ve hurt you and your loved ones.
Think about these verses from First Peter and Colossians: ‘If you want a happy life and good days keep your tongue from speaking evil, and keep your lips from telling lies’ (3:10). ‘Don’t lie to each other, for you have stripped off your old evil nature and all its wicked deeds. In its place you have clothed yourself with a brand-new nature that is continually being renewed as you learn more and more about Christ, who created this new nature within you’ (3:9-10).
If lying is second nature to you, it may be difficult for you to change, but you must! You must learn to guard your lips and your thoughts from lies, which will hurt you as well as others. Then you can press on in your spiritual growth to be the person God created you to be.