Our ministry at New Life is all about life change. We help people who are in pain, confused, stuck, and don’t know where to turn. Sometimes we help people change their trajectory in life a few degrees, and sometimes it’s a 180-degree change. We don’t pretend that changing trajectory and living the life God has for you is easy, nor is it a one-time thing. But God doesn’t want you to live in the pain and confusion any longer.
He’s waiting for you to do what you’ve been waiting for Him to do. You want things to get better, for the pain, anger and confusion to go away—and so does He. But our faith is proven by our taking steps not seeing the end, but knowing it’s there and God will honor the steps we take.
You’ve suffered the pain of betrayal, and I hope you’re working through it. Whether your marriage has survived or not, we want to, and can, help you. Guys make decisions to behave in a way they shouldn’t—they cross a line that they can’t take back and it’s hurt you deeply. They’ve gone to Every Man’s Battle and hopefully their lives are different and they’ve restored or are in the process of restoring their integrity.
But you’re still hurting!
Usually it’s the case that you discovered his sexual and emotional indiscretions and you’ve been living with a hole in your heart—you’ve been angry, sad, confused, ashamed . . . wondering, “Why? What did I do? What should I have done? What didn’t I do? What’s wrong with me? How could he do such a thing? What was he thinking?” On and on the questions go.
Maybe it’s been years and the pain is still there, as is the anger, confusion and shame. Or maybe it’s fairly new and you’re feeling paralyzed And you have no one you feel safe talking to.
“But it was his problem and his actions and his stupid decision—not mine!” That’s a common thought of the wife whose husband has acted out sexually. So you don’t think it’s your problem and probably had the thought: “He just needs to go take care of his issue and we’ll be fine.”
But there’s so much more to it than that. It’s why we created the Women in the Battle intensive workshop. Dr. Sheri Keffer, one of my radio co-hosts and the speaker at Women in the Battle has a special message for you. Just watch her invitation video below.
You’ll be glad you watched this—Sheri has been where you are and knows exactly what you’re feeling, and she wants to help you. Watch this video and take the step to healing God wants for you.