Command and Control

Command and ControlThe rational thinking of your mind is done in the outer layer of your cerebral cortex. The cortex makes all the big decisions and psychologists have come to refer to this as the ‘executive functions of the brain.’ Continue reading

Get Busy Living

Get Busy Living

Get Busy Living or Get Busy Dying
(Andy, The Shawshank Redemption)

Spiritually, we are busy dying when we continue to feed our sexual addiction. You know that. You can easily testify up close and personal, that the nature of the flesh is to war against the things of the Spirit. Continue reading

Confronting the Resistance to Change

Confronting the Resistance to ChangeResistance is a force that pushes back against movement in a particular direction. In terms of dealing with addiction, resistance will be encountered as you try to change the old way of behaving and will manifest in several ways. The first resistance encountered will be simply to admit you have a problem that needs change. This admission is the first step in the recovery process. Overcoming denial often results when the pain of our behavior is worse than the rewards it brings. Continue reading