6 Keys to Confronting Character Defects

What does it take to confront character defects? Humility, a powerful force for transformation. Life Recovery Step 6 states, “We were entirely ready to have God remove these defects of character.” None of us like to look at the areas in which we fall short; however, to work the steps and heal from the power that addiction has over us, we must be ready to confront our deepest defects. Need help? There are 6 keys to confronting character defects; each is a step towards a transformed life.

1. Humble ourselves.
   The opposite of pride is humility. When we recognize that our current approach to life isn’t effective and are open to seeking help from God and others, it shows that we are starting to humble ourselves and preparing for God to work in our lives.
2. Recognize what character defects are and their impact on us.
   A character defect refers to a negative personality trait or behavior that contributes to addiction, unhealthy habits, and detrimental patterns in our lives.
3. Create a list of our character defects.
   Understanding our own flaws is the key to personal growth. As the saying goes, if we aim for nothing, we will hit it. So, take the time to identify any character defects that come to mind.Here are some common character defects:
   • Anger
   • Codependency
   • Denial
   • Enabling
   • Fear
   • Lying
   • Perfectionism
   • Pride
   • Unforgiveness
   • Victim Mentality
4. Answer questions in a journal about specific character defects.
   To help you confront specific character defects, please respond to the following questions in a journal, like the Life Recovery Blank Journal:
   • How does this character defect manifest itself?
   • What are the consequences of this character defect?
   • In what ways can this character defect influence the use of a substance or continuation of an unhealthy pattern?
   • How might this character defect hinder a healthy recovery?
5. Tell God that we are ready for Him to remove our character defects.
   Let God know you are ready for Him to remove your character defects. By humbling yourself before the Lord in prayer, “He will lift you up in honor” (James 4:10, NLT).
6. Find a safe community to create lasting change.
   Recognizing our character defects, understanding how they negatively impact our lives, and asking God to help us remove them are essential steps toward healing. However, it’s important to remember that you can’t do this alone. The final and arguably one of the most important keys to confronting your character defects is to find a supportive community. To join a Life Recovery Group today, click here.

If you find yourself struggling to confront your character defects, please call 800-NEW-LIFE.

by Kimberlee Bousman