CARE, COUNSELING, AND SUPPORT FOR WOMEN WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED BETRAYAL
Being Betrayed Isn’t the End of Your Story.
Your husband or partner’s behavior—the affair, the porn use, the lying about who he was talking to—left you questioning your own sanity, wondering if anyone else understands, or unsure what to even call what you’re feeling. You’re not alone, and you’re not overreacting.
What you’re experiencing is called betrayal trauma. And healing is possible, even if your relationship’s future feels uncertain.
4,000+ women have found healing through New Life.
You’re Not Crazy. This Is Trauma
What If I’ve Been Betrayed?
Betrayal trauma happens when trust and safety are violated in a relationship where faithfulness and commitment was the promise.
When a partner’s infidelity, pornography use, sexual integrity struggle, emotional affair, or years of secrecy come to light, the impact is devastating—not just emotionally, but physically and spiritually.
The shock, the grief, the disorientation: they aren’t a failure of faith or strength. They’re the natural response to a trust that was broken by someone who promised to be faithful.
And there is a way through it.
What If I’ve been betrayed?
You Are Not Alone
A thriving marriage doesn’t happen by accident. At New Life, we believe every couple can experience lasting connection by applying biblical truth, emotional insight, and practical tools. Through New Life’s various resources rooted in the expertise of Christian marriage counseling, you can:
- 46% of U.S. women report having been cheated on by a partner or spouse at some point.
- 57% of young U.S. women believe infidelity is “extremely common” in American society.
- 1 in 3 U.S. marriages experiences at least one instance of infidelity (American Psychological Association).
- 4,000+ women have found healing through New Life.
HEALING AFTER BETRAYAL
Rescue: A Half-Day That Changes the Way You Heal
A virtual gathering for women impacted by betrayal—a focused four-hour online experience designed as a first step you can take.
Rescue is built for the woman who knows that betrayal has impacted her life but doesn’t know what to do or who can help. Your four hours include:
- Two teaching sessions on betrayal, trauma, and healing
- Two small-group breakouts with other women who already understand
- A closing session that shows you what’s possible from here
Faith-Based Betrayal Recovery for Women
Restore: When You’re Ready to Go All In
Restore is for the woman who’s done waiting to feel like herself again, and ready to do something about it.
Through Restore, you’ll understand:
- the sexual addiction cycle and why it changes everything
- how trauma rewires your brain and why you can’t just “get over it”
- tools for establishing healthy boundaries and rebuilding trust
- the difference between forgiveness and reconciliation
- practical strategies for managing emotional overwhelm
- creating a recovery plan centered on your healing
Find help after betrayal
Your Healing Begins Here
Whether you’re just beginning to understand what happened to you, or you’ve been carrying this for years, you don’t have to stay stuck.
Rescue and Restore exist because thousands of women have been exactly where you are right now. They found a way forward.
So can you.
Find support and strength in community
Faith-based Programs for Women After Betrayal
Recover from trauma, rebuild your confidence, restore your story.
TOOLS TO HEAL AND FIND FREEDOM
Resources to Help You Feel Safe, Seen, and Supported
FAITH-BASED HELP FOR SEXUAL STRUGGLES
For the Husband Who’s Ready to Stop Hiding
We have resources for your partner who’s struggling or has committed infidelity. Freedom doesn’t come from willpower or pretending it’s not a problem. It comes from doing the work most men avoid. Thousands of men have walked this road with New Life. The shame doesn’t get the last word, but only if you’re willing to face what you’ve been doing and commit to changing it.
TRUTH
Guidance and wisdom based on God’s Word
Connection
Deep, redemptive relationships that bring healing
TRANSFORMATION
Redeemed lives with renewed perspectives
“This workshop helped me see that I am not the problem—that my husband’s choices are not my fault. I am not all the horrible things I think of myself.”
-Angelita
“God is so good to use your Restore intensive to help me surrender the things that have kept me in bondage for 47 years!”
-Kimberly
“I encourage all women who are going through this to attend this workshop. You won’t regret it!”
-Monica
